What is Rimming?

 

Rimming is oral sex involving licking, nibbling, and kissing the anus, which eventually comes to penetration with the tongue. There is so much sexual arousal across the butt area, up to the thighs, anus, and lower back. The ideal way of pleasing these areas is to caress them and please them orally. If you are at the receiving ends of these attentions, you can rest assured of serious sensual feelings rushing through your body thanks to the lips and tongues of the donor. The donor, on the other hand, enjoys the partner sensual ass, while getting turned on by the activities.

 

It is common for rimming to be referred to as anal-oral, rim-job, arse-licking, ass-eating and anilingus. Whichever way, what goes down in rimming remains the sensual games played by the tongue to the asses of either the male or the female. Both men and females can engage in rimming, with each guaranteed maximum sensual satisfaction in the end. However, to get the best out of rimming, it is important that both parties get totally immersed in the act and try to enjoy every bit of the process. 

 

Getting prepared for Rimming – Hygiene and Cleanliness

 

When it comes to rimming, hygiene is to be taken seriously. Make everything absolutely clean from the start on; this eliminates any health risk or chances of a turnoff for either of the parties. Here are some tips to help you with hygiene with regards to rimming;

 

  • Dental Damsnot only make it easier to get face to face with the unknown region, but also limit the risk of communicable diseases.

When you are on the go and no direct access to washing possibilities, they come very handy!  You can get latex dental dams or similar anti-allergic fabrics.

  • Cleanlinessis crucial.A bath together before the start is a good idea to clean up and get the warm up the interaction. The cleaner you are, the dirtier you can play. 

BUT in some cases, one partner gets turned on by the unwashed odor of their partner. So it something to discuss beforehand.

  • Enemasare not compulsory, but if it makes any of the parties feel better, it is welcomed.

  • Anal waxingand bleaching can be recommended depending on what the partners prefer.Feel free to proceed without waxing or bleaching, and if you must do it, work with professionals only.

  • Talk– engage in honest discussions with your partner about your preferences and expectations with rimming.This puts you both on the same page, and ultimately ensure that you both can please each other. If there are specific lip techniques or body language you prefer, verbalize it to your partner. You can start by kissing and touching while extending the attention to the butt more frequently. While at it, be on the lookout for the reactions of your partner.

 

Expected Taste?

 

Normally there are no unpleasant smells or tastes during rimming – that is, if you are freshly washed and the receiver does not feel the urge to use the toilet.

You are not new to the smell and taste of your partner; after all, you both kiss and explore other body parts regularly. So if cleaned up properly, that is what you should expect too – the usual aromas

 

Can Rimming work as foreplay?

 

Of course, Rimming can serve as foreplay before anal sex, not only the highlight of a quickie in the shower. If the sphincter is very tight, rimming can be a good and safe way of loosening it up, while getting it arousal in preparation for penetration, either by a penis or a toy. The nerve endings around the ass hole are quite sensitive, and with the tongue showering endless attention on it through soft play, the receiver ultimately gets aroused more than ever. 

 

For more fun, and obviously, more arousal, you can add butt plugs, anal dildos, and similar toys for the tongue to rest while at it.

 

Feel free to get creative with rimming, either with toys or the tongue, the results are amazing if you get it right.

 

The common rimming positions

 

There is no ideal position for rimming; any arrangement that offers easy access to the anus is great. So, either you are standing, laying, or sitting, you are good to go. However, here are some rimming-friendly positions that can give you total access to get the best out of your first rimming expedition;

  • 69: this is the all-time best oral sex position that offers maximum pleasure
  • Facesitting: In this position, the receiver is seated on the donor’s face by kneeling and spreading the legs over the donor’s head.The donor, on the other hand, lies on his back relaxed.
  • Doggy style: This is a great position with the receivers butt up in the air and legs angled.

 

Rimming vs. BDSM

 

Right from the early times, rimming has always been considered as a method of torture. Then it was meant for humiliating villains, but the course has changed now, although it is still a common method of sexual humiliation if the partners are submissive enough.

 

BDSM is a broad scope with several aspects, including rimming. Rimming is popular for its perfect combination of lust, punishment, and sensual satisfaction. Rimming with a touch of BDSM can involve the use of smother boxes – an arrangement that involves holding the head of the donor tight in a wooden box, with the only opening for assessing the ass of the receiver. This arrangement can add more spice and excitement to the whole lick game.

 

Felching and Ass to Mouth

Ass-to-Mouth is a whole new level of fetish. Although it is found in normal bedroom sexual practices, it is an aspect of BDSM in some cases. In Ass-to-Mouth, also called indirect rimming, the receiver takes the toy, finger, or penis, right into the mouth after leaving the ass. 

 

In felching, the donor, or a third party, licks and swallows the sperm straight from the anus after the donor must have ejaculated. Felching leaves room for experiments, and the parties may decide to use tasty eatable and drinkable fluids, even with the use of straws, both anally and vaginally.

 

Staying healthy while rimming 

 

Rimming sure comes with a couple of risks, considering how the butt is prone to the presence of bacteria and germs. However, these risks shouldn’t deter you from having the best of sensual experience through rimming. Here are some helpful tips to keep you healthy while you engage in rimming:

 

  • Both the donor and receiver must be healthy. If the health of either party is weak, chances are germs, and bacteria will thrive and find their way into the licking party.
  • Avoid smaller wounds or diseases around the anus, usually from wild anal sex.This guarantees that certain oral diseases like hepatitis A and B, syphilis, fungi, or chlamydia do not get transmitted into the licking party.
  • Honesty is key, with regards to the health of the parties.It is important that both parties stay true to hygiene and cleanliness. Dental dams are also quite important for one-night-stands. 

 

All these measures will keep you safe while ensuring that you get the best and most intense sexual satisfaction from rimming.

 


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