Also known as Findom, financial domination has increased in prominence over time. While the rewards are obvious and exciting, the other side of the divide is hardly considered. So, in this piece, we will be discussing the chances of things going south when a mistress is controlling the income of her slave, or pay pig.

What is Financial Domination?

Findom or Financial domination is an exciting fetish genre is now popular more than ever, all thanks to the internet and the increasing hunger for variety in people, especially the male folks. While traditional domination situation entails the submissive visiting his mistress and getting into physical involvements like humiliation, bondage, and whipping, Findom is a bit different. In Findom, The basis of the relationship between the male and the female here are financial domination and control of the submissive. 

Also known as the goddess, the findom mistress is in charge of the finances of the slave in different ways, for instance, she may be getting a specific percentage of the slave’s income as a tribute or footing her shopping bills and even vacation expenses from the slave’s purse.

The Slave or ‘Pay Pig’

Slaves or submissives are the males in the findom relationship. They are also called the “walking ATMs’ or “pay pigs.” The bulk of the pleasure, for the slave, comes from the satisfaction he gets from seeing how his goddess is spending his money. Some slaves even go as far as doing webcam sessions with their goddess to ensure that they are financially controlled. These contacts, including phone calls, come at costly rates as charged by the mistress. The goddess is empowered to humiliate and degrade the slave during such phone call or webcam sessions, by asking him to engage in profoundly humiliating activities.

In some instances, the slave may plead for the chance to orgasm, and if the goddess is interested in such offers, she will give him the release at a very high price. And in other instances, the goddess might not be interested in the offer at all, subsequently forbidding the slave from ejaculating at all. To ease his resulting frustration, the slave may need to offer more money to appease the goddess at his next attempt.

For some slaves, they get to have physical meetings with their goddess, usually in the form of visits, vacations, shopping trips, dates to expensive restaurant and theatres – all at the expense of the slave.  The slave is bound to satisfy the goddess during such meetings and trips, even if it means draining their credit card.

Total Control

Some cases, usually extreme, may warrant the slave to allow the goddess control all areas of their life, including access to sensitive financial details like credit card numbers and bank account details. The goddess may even obtain the personal detail of her pay pig and use the same in different illegal acts, including blackmailing, and incessant demands for huge sums of money. The slave, on the other hand, is at the risk of exposing his fetish relationship to family, friends, and business colleagues if they fail to yield to the demands of their mistress. Although the blackmail is mostly ‘consensual,’ there must be a considerable amount of trust between the two parties for such to hold. And the slave is usually at the receiving end of all the risks, and sometimes, losses. As always, when it comes to fetish, the best is to set healthy boundaries. 

Ruin

A quick trip to financial domination websites will reveal the high percentage of slaves who are so curious about what a ruin looks like. A ‘ruin’ explains a situation where the pay pig eventually give up all their worth to their goddess while being left totally broke. 

Not all slaves are restricted to fantasizing about ruins – some have actually experienced it. There was a case of a slave who was so obsessed with his mistress that he had to leave his luxurious house to settle into a simple flat with a handful of possessions while working for 20 hours daily and submitting the bulk of his salary to the mistress at the end of the month. Another slave had to be staying in his car to ensure that his mistress has the sole control over his entire wealth. 

Making Findom Ethical?

Most men who got into a relationship with a findom for the wrong reasons end up criticizing the fetish because they lost a lot of money or were almost ruined financially. However, contrary to such views, the original intentions of most findoms is not to ruin their slaves financially or treat them in such unethical ways. The reality is that the slaves get carried away by the pleasure they derive and the power of the financial domination over them. Subsequently, they allow they leave their lives at the mercy of the fantasy aspects of findom.

Perhaps, you are planning to get into a financial domination relationship? Ensure that you confirm that your goddess is of reasonable and ethical behaviors before proceeding. If you conduct a proper search, you would most likely find good and experienced findoms around. 

It is also important to when to set healthy boundaries when it comes to findom and other fetishes. 

Good luck!

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