How to Make DIY BDSM Toys - Oxy-shop

01-02-2023 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 


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Ranging from being on a budget to not being ready to get one, there are so many factors that could explain not having access to BDSM toys every time you need one. With the many homemade bondage devices options available, there is no need to worry about your solo play hitting rock bottom.


Are you wondering where to get the items you would be needing from? Easy-peasy. Your home is literally filled with household items begging to be turned into something creative for your sexual pleasure. Start by reading this article to the end to see how you can reach your kinky fantasies without breaking the bank.


WHAT IS A DIY BDSM GEAR?


A DIY BDSM gear is an affordable and convenient means of exploring what you would find pleasurable in an actual BDSM gear in terms of length, girth and texture with household and random items. They also provide an avenue to try something new and exciting when you get bored of all the sex toys in your possession. Most homemade bondage devices are disposable and do not cause so much mess, making them an ideal alternative for your regular BDSM gears. 


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Types of Homemade Bondage Devices


  1. Laundry Pins: Laundry just got more exciting. Put those laundry pins to some extra use by using them as nipple clamps. They bring the same extra pressure as an expensive nipple clamp.
  2. Feathers and Feather Dusters: Improvise feather dusters with any other kind of feather. For some extra drama, tie your partner, blindfold them and gently tease them with the feather while paying attention to their erogenous zones.
  3. Ice Cubes and Mints: Hold some ice cubes or mint-flavored sweets in your mouth for a while, then proceed to have the best oral sex with your partner. You may also run a cube or two directly over their body. Watch them scream and beg for mercy.
  4. Sandpaper: This is perfect for sensory play. Just rub it all over your sub’ skin and erogenous zones to create the right sensations. You may also take it a notch higher by incorporating it in an oily and sensual massage for some extra stimulations. 
  5. An Old Dog Leash:Create the perfect dom/sub and pet play environment with this DIY BDSM gear by putting your sub in a collar and a leash.
  6. A Rubber Band: Get the same sensation from a spank by spicing things up with rubber bands. The biting flick is even more intense. Explore and try it on your sub’s erogenous zones.
  7. A Sleep Mask: Improvise a BDSM blindfold with your favorite sleep mask. They are easy to take on and are ideal for bondage play.
  8. A Necktie: this is a perfect item to improvise as handcuffs at the last minute. Use it to restrain your sub to the bed frame. They also work well as blindfolds.
  9. Hair Ties: These are perfect improvised tools for cock rings. Just slip it on to your partner’s penis for a longer erection. 
  10. Candle Wax:You can use two stones to kill a bird with a candle. Light it to set the tone and engage in some erotic wax play with your partner. Just ensure the candle you use is not beeswax as they burn.

Jordan Douglas, a subwife on Quora talks about a list of household items she has turned into homemade bondage devices; 


“Our bathtub.


I do not use running water, because as a Subwife, I am not entitled to touching my clitoris. HOWEVER, I sit on the side as if I'm in my saddle, and lean forward, and pound/thrust/hump the tub until my orgasm rushes me. 


Our Blue Shovel. (Cheating)


 The short, wide shovel handle is perfect for me to wedge up into my labia at my clitoris, while the other end is in the ground. Beware of wobbly legs afterwards. 


Our old Tractor


Lets just say the manual shift knows me inside and out.”

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HOW TO DO A DIY BDSM GEAR?


Check out how to make a few of your favorite BDSM gears;

1. Spanking Paddle– You would be needing a jigsaw with a woodcutting blade, 1× 4 or 1× 6 hardwood board stock, a pen or pencil and a belt sander.

  • Select your stock. The ideal spanking paddle should not have any knots or weak spots.
  • Use your pencil or pen to trace the design of the body and handle of your paddle onto the stock. Note that longer paddles require more handling.
  • Cut out the paddle blank with a jigsaw. Leave a small amount of stock all the way round.
  • Use the sander to round off corners and remove rough patches. 

diy bdsm spanking paddle
2. Rolled Towel Masturbator (Fifi) – You would be needing a towel, a latex glove and thread.

  • Wrap the towel up.
  • Place the latex glove through the hole.
  • Thread the glove, then spread the opening back around the towel.
  • You should get a firm contraption with a hole in the middle.
  • Use plenty of lube and wank away.

Rolled Towel Masturbator

3. Sock Masturbator – You would be needing three pairs of socks, a latex glove and a rubber band.


  • Stack two pairs of socks and lay them beside each other.
  • Fold each pair from the toes carefully and put them down with the fold underneath.
  • Lay the glove on one pair of socks and make sure the cuff is sticking out approximately one or two inches.
  • Put another pair on top with the glove sandwiched between them.
  • Wrap the glove’s cuff over the socks’ ends
  • Wrap the third pair of socks around the center of your sock and glove sandwich, then adjust the tightness.
  • Tie the ends with the rubber band.
  • Lube up and enjoy.


diy Sock Masturbator

FAQS


CAN I DO HOMEMADE BDSM GEAR?


All you need to do is put your horny-but-can’t-access-a-sex-toy and creative side to use and you would be shocked at your ability to make your own homemade bondage device. 


ARE HOMEMADE BDSM DEVICES ANY FUN TO USE?


One of the fun things about improvising your BDSM gears with household items is that it gives you the ability to look at something around the house and feel horny and playful. The secret kinkiness that only you can imagine is so much fun. 


CONCLUSION


Only a few things are more fulfilling in the kink world than getting creative with your homemade BDSM gears and getting pleasure from it. Let your hands rest (after you have used them to make your BDSM gears, of course) and pleasure yourself from your favorite bondage devices at little cost. Just remember to stock up on lube and use only clean items for your DIY BDSM gear. Good luck!


Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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