Before we start this journey, it is important to prepare your mind on how pleasing forced orgasms can be, provided you go about it the right way. With that said, let us dive into the world of kinky forced orgasm situations.

Forced orgasms are great – at least, that is what most people have reported. So, here we are trying to look at why people have arrived at this conclusion. As peculiar to most kinky activities out there, there are a few reasons people prefer forced orgasms. 

An integral part of power exchange is the compulsion to orgasm. During forced orgasms, you temporarily relinquish your power, allowing your power to get into the driving seat. Hence, they ultimately determine when you get your sexual release. 

Yes, it can be painful to (in)voluntarily withhold the orgasm. However, the bout of forced orgasms leaves a particular type of pleasurable pain in your body – a blend of sexual release and pain of friction on the delicate body parts. This pleasurable pain is either due to the heightened sensitivity and soreness of these pleasure-giving parts, or the force of the stimulation from a rough hand, a vibrator on high, and other similar media. 

We all love orgasms. However, people who practiced forced orgasms are experiencing another level of pleasure entirely. The muscle spasms are advanced, with the sizzling and tingling of the delicate nerves. Each bout leaves you gasping for even more breadth. Talk about paradise – forced orgasms are close. 

The biggest brand in the forced orgasms and vibrators world is the Original Magic Wand (or Hitachi). The level of pain increases with the size of the vibrator used and vibrations produced. 

How do you use the device? Get a couple of silk scarves, a pair of handcuffs, or a bondage tap and use it to bind your partner to the bed, so that they do not get to move. You may also tie them to any other flat surface around the home. Now, turn on the vibrator and attach it in place using the tape or rope harnesses. Alternatively, you can stand and hold it against your partner, pressing it against their body. 

The vibrator is not the only tool for this – the penis works just fine too, provided it is hard enough and ready to be milked for every drop of semen it carries. Note that men may be multi-orgasmic, although they require some time to recover after each climax. But even if the man is not multi-orgasmic, you only need to edge and stimulate them properly before release for a properly forced orgasm. 

Here is a quick tip: Get yourself a solo toy by taking advantage of many valentine’s offers around to recreate a forced orgasm scenario with your partner.

In this form of orgasm play, the top/dominant takes their partner very close to orgasm, usually through solo masturbation, without actually climaxing. The directives come in unambiguous verbal instructions from the top/dominant, and they may even control the sensations while preventing the sub from climaxing for as long as they want. 

This arrangement requires the sub to beg for the Dom’s approval to climax. The decision to grant or deny such requests lies solely with the dominant. In other cases, the sub may wait for permission rather than beg.  The pleasure and pain come from denial. The sub waits for the Dom’s consent to climax, with the stimulus continuing to build up even after the first orgasm. 

It is common for the first orgasms to be more explosive than the subsequent ones (in the case of multi-orgasmic males). In other times, however, all the orgasms bear the same level of pleasure, considering that such subs carry significant levels of sensations and endorphins.

You do not necessarily need a partner to achieve forced orgasms. Just get your self-servicing right, and you are good to go. Start by rubbing yourself out. Instead of rushing to climax, take your time to allow the semen to build up. To make things easier, get your partner to help if they are around. If not, get them on the phone or Skype. They do not have to direct your movements or guide you; all they have to do is watch. 

After your first orgasm, continue the movement of the fingers, with the vibrator pressed against your body. This might hurt, but it is even better that way. The next orgasm will start building up, alongside the strong urge to increase the speed of your hands, close your legs, or do anything else that will hasten the climax. When this happens, follow the flow of the buildup and force at least one more orgasm, even when you do not feel like it. 

Once the pain is greater than the pleasure, you may stop. This is most likely to happen after the second orgasm, or sometimes, after the tenth. Now you withdraw your hand or the toy and enjoy the after-effect. You will feel not only relaxed but also ready for some long and refreshing sleep.