The Italian expression Bastonate means stick blow and does hit the nerve of this SM and BSDM punishment precisely. The concept is primarily about blowing stick on the bare sole.

Our modern enthusiasts of this discipline have applied an old method that has been in use for more than three thousand years ago. The foot has been identified as a zone of intense stimulation. The abundant nerve cells at the sole not only transports circular finger movements to the brain at lightning speed, but also an almost exploding pleasure pain.

Note that it is crucial that the sub is immobilized, and also, increase in the strength of blows by the dom should be gradual. Consequently, the fantasy feeling from the two partners will also increase gradually while the sub will realize that he/she deserves the torture.

Immobility is integral to SM and BSDM events, particularly concerning punishment. However, Forniphilia is an entirely different form of “immobility.” It offers a significant level of humiliation and discipline as the sub is mentally tied. Also, the sub has to act like furniture which serves the dom – the service is the punishment.

Forniphilia is done by ensuring that the sub is naked or in a cloth chose by the dom and remain motionless for several hours – most times with no tie. For instance, the sub can act as a cloth rack or serve as a footrest or table for the dom while the dom offers humiliation to the submissive partner.

Also, you can try neglect; neglecting the sub can be very punishing by putting the sub in a backroom or dark place for hours. The side effect? The sub will become more subservient.

Endeavor to polish your sub as you would rub your furniture regularly.

The diaper penalty is categorized to the group of infantilism that offers some sort of humiliation. In this form of punishment, the sub has to mimic a baby to display to the dom and herself that he/she is helpless and little. The sub will allow the dom to look after her like a small child and also, have to put on a pacifier – and a diaper too. The two partners will be stimulated in some ways as a result of the power gap between them.

Some of the roles which the dom may play include a parent, doctor, uncle or aunty. The punishment can come in the form of banning toilets for the sub or order the sub to wear the diaper beneath her cloth daily.

Note that infantilism depicts the power gap between a dom and a sub in unique role-playing ways. And endeavor not to confuse infantilism to paedophilia. Role-playing involves sex; however, it entails a set of roles and relishing the distance in power.

Some of the variations of binding or upsetting a sub are by terminating a sensual act just when you are about to reach the climax. Slave punishment has no imaginative limitations. Mental torture such as neglect or playing erotic games with a naked female can be used aside spanking, and figging. Some concepts you may engage in include:

1. Make the dom feel excited without hands and mouth, and yet let him feel a maximum level of orgasm.
2. Let her eat from a plate near the table – call it “Eat off the floor.”
3. Ban orgasm – order her to inform you before she cum and tell her to stop while you only permit her to finish off when necessary.
4. Cleaning while naked or wearing lingerie.
5. Ice-cube treatment all over the body
6. Tell her to drive naked with you and zoom off to the city.
7. Performing chores with bell clamp on the nipples and labia – and instruct that the bell must not ring.
8. Blindfold eyes for 24hrs while you make love and punish
9. Enema; introduce a half-liter of water to the vagina and maintain it for 15 minutes while the dom watches.
10. Take the sub out for dinner while she wears a love-ball inserted into the vagina. The love ball will get her strongly stimulated as she takes every step.

There are no limitations to the series of punishments and orders which a mistress or master can put forward. Such penalties can range from the negligence of one’s will, physical torture to the use of humiliating nicknames. The role of sub and dom is comprehensive and demands an appealing act. Many Sub men get their kicks by beeing set up in a woman’s dress, give a kiss to the dom’s feet or be punished through bastinado, figging or acting like a piece of furniture. Source: Quora

Other forms of penalty for the males include:

1. Cooking without clothes and sitting under the table from which the dom eats.
2. Putting on a lip-gloss daily or wearing a blouse.
3. Wearing a urethral sound for 24 hours.
4. Commands such as speak, Down, Sit, or lick for 24 hours only.
5. Using a standing dick as a towel hanger – with an instruction that the towel must not fall.
6. Compulsory shopping and must come back with a fitting cloth for her.
7. Ban orgasm – he has to swallow himself if he fails.
8. Non-wearing of underpants to duty every day
9. Crawling for a whole day
10. Having his penis photograph as his phone’s background image for seven days
11. Putting on a butt plug for 24 hrs
12. Must request permission for even the smallest action – including the use of text when you are far to one another.
13. You can use the sub as an immobile floor lamp.
14. Make the sub wear a Cock cage, which provides complete control to the dom.

Agree on a safe word before the scene to prevent bad experience. Once the word is mentioned, you have to stop the play immediately.

Do not use words like “harder” or any ambiguous or complicated words. When you have safety word in place, you will be able to endure towards your limit knowing that you can end the event at any time.

It is vital to imagine and discuss your possible limits before you begin the play. The most pleasurable gain can be achieved by keeping your stance below the critical point. In this way, the play will take longer, be intensive and more rewarding for the two partners.

Additionally, do not consume alcohol during the pre-play discussion because it will influence your inhibitions and feelings of pain.