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Urethral Play begins with a smooth insertion, which would ne not possible without lube. Lubricants used during play will make the experience enjoyable, but most importantly, will keep you safe. Urethral stimulation could be a risky activity if you start not prepared, so take all precautions necessary to make it a lasting activity.

While pegging is used often in BDSM due to the control dynamic, it does not need to be limited to D/s relationships. Anyone who is looking to spice things up in the bedroom and possibly achieve mind blowing orgasms may want to look at pegging.

For me, CBT puts me in the precarious position of craving more stimulation even though I know the stimulation is going to hurt.  It puts me into a different mental state than I get to with any other form of discipline.  Maybe it's all of those nerve endings screaming at once.  Maybe it's my vulnerability.  

What happens when a kinkster into BDSM and various fetish finds himself (or herself) married to a spouse who prefers Vanilla sex?  This is what we are going to talk about.

Headspace is that place that we go when we want to engage in or even exist in a reality that can be vastly different than our public reality. If you are not new to BDSM and kink/fetish, it could be that you have already heard the word and maybe even have become intimately familiar with headspace.

The challenge was how to add humiliation to our play without endangering our "normal" lives.  She wanted to introduce humiliation gradually. She knew that she couldn't simply leave me tied up in the front yard.  That would have overstepped my limits in a big way.

Do you have some sexual interest in feet? Do you get a boner with a seductive ankle? You might be surprised by numbers, 7 out of 10 men have a foot fetish - The most common fetish out there is just at your feet! And you thought you had unique tastes…

No real “cure” exists, but the addiction can be effectively treated and managed for life. Apart from sex addicts anonymous or residential sexual addiction treatment, the use of a chastity device is another solution. It might not be a permanent fix, but will help you challenge yourself to change your addictions and bring peace of mind for your partner.

Struggling with porn and masturbation? Sex addiction which impact your normal life? Stop fapping now and get locked up for good to limit your sexual urges and appetite!

A lot of wannabe sissies starting their sissy training journey by hypnosis or other methods, yet they still don’t have what it takes to be a sissy that is worthy of the name. Let’s find out whether or not you have the potential to become a legit sissy maid and embark with us on the road to feminization.

Everyone has a different idea of BDSM perfection and a different idea of dominance. We are complicated in our kinkiness and in our dominant submissive relationships. My perfect dominant is a woman, about my age, with whom I have a relationship outside of kink - She is my mistress and i am her slave.

Also called cock cage, it is a device worn around the shaft and head of the penis - held securely in place with a testicule ring or a waist harness. Once the chastity device is locked, any form of erection become uncomfortable or impossible - preventing masturabtion & penetration.

Are you new to bondage or a rope master, it’s always good to review some BDSM Basics. At Oxy, we want you to get restrained – So here comes the top 5 bondage ties every fetter must know.