Reasons to use BDSM restraints

When vanilla sex doesn’t cut it anymore, it’s time to spice things up in the bedroom. Perhaps you want to be handcuffed, gagged or tied up. Whatever your kinks are, bondage restraints are some of the first things that can bring your fantasies to life. There are several reasons why kinky restraints are so popular, find out why below the product list:

Power play

Are you a master/mistress or a slave? Whoever you want to be, the use of sex restraints can symbolise an exchange of power between partners. It can also help you to feel powerful behind closed doors especially if you don’t hold much power in your professional life. This also works vice versa. Many high-powered C-suite executives or cops are secretly restraints slaves in the bedroom. ;)

It looks sexy

Leather collars, chokers, harnesses may have started out as adult restraints gear, but they are now fashion accessories that people wear with their clothes out in public. It’s undeniable that these wearable bondage accessories give any basic outfit an edgy look, so imagine how arousing it’ll look on a naked body.

Enhance sensations
When you’re tied up, blindfolded or and restricted, your other senses will be magnified. During sensory deprivation, a gentle stroke will feel intensely erotic, let alone a hard spank. For more intense restraint play, you can even use some hardcore fetish restraints like nipple clamps or CBT sex toys alongside gentler ones like cuffs, collars and puppy mitts.

Deeper emotional connection

Trusting your partner enough to relinquish control over to them sexually will allow you to emotionally connect with them on a deeper level. After all, as a slave, you’ll be in a vulnerable position. But sex bondage adult games require trust that the dom won’t overstep boundaries or inflict pain without consent and the dom should not abuse that trust. When this has been demonstrated over multiple BDSM sessions, the emotional and sexual connection between both parties will definitely deepen.

Maintain position

If you’re having trouble keeping your legs spread or ass up, BDSM straps and restraints will help you maintain that optimum position for maximum pleasure to both parties.

Various types of restraints

• Male bondage restraints
  These includemale chastity devices and CBT sex toys like The Humbler, which clamps the balls and pulls them down and keeps him on all fours. Mistresses can also keep their little pet’sballs on a leash and walk him by his testicles. Think he deserves full punishment? Get thispunishment humbler set that comes with a whip, Wartenberg wheel and a ball gag to muffle his screams of pain.

• Breast bondage

Just like testicles, the breasts and nipples can also be clamped and stretched. UsingThe Tower of Pain, you can attach the clamps to your sub’s nipples and stretch them by turning the knob on top of the pole that’s placed on her chest. You can also use this stainless steelbreast compactor to squeeze and compress her breasts.

• Cuffs

Part of every BDSM beginner’s adult toy collection, hand and ankle cuffs come in handy when you want to keep your slave shackled. Our wide range of high quality cuffs come in stainless steel with integrated lock,zinc, luxurioussatin, andfaux leather. 

• Bondage gear kit

Not sure what exactly to buy? Get them all in one set! Our discreetcarry purse bondage BDSM kit includes a pair of handcuffs, ankle cuffs, chains, collar, leash, and carry bag in 5 colors. Prefer the cold touch of metal? Ourmetal bondage restraint set will cover all bases.

• Bed restraints

Ideal for beginners to explore some light bondage, ourUnderbed Restraints that can be placed under the top and bottoms of mattresses of any size. Featuring an adjustable and detachable snap hook attachment, the velour-lined cuffs are secured with velcro for easy removal. If your sub keeps trying to escape, put thisfetish jacket which fully restricts upper body movement on them. The jacket even comes with D-rings so you can attach other restraints to keep your patient where they belong.

• Leg spreaders

Keep your slave’s legs spread wide open with thisrestraint bondage for easy access, thisspreader bar, and theseleg spreading straps. Keep them where you want them and angle them at the perfect position for you fuck them deep and ravish them with passion. 

• Dog collar

Ourmetal andfaux leather collars come with D-rings that you can attach to chains, leashes and ropes to keep your slave in their place, reminding them that they’re your property. You can also deprive your slave or their right to free speech with this with thisbreathable ball gag collar that comes with a leash. 

• Shibari rope

Discover the art form of Japanese bondage with our Shibari bondage gear. Decorate your sun’s body with beautiful ready-tied knots with ourShibari rope back restraint,Shibari rope hog-tie,Shibari handcuffs and complete the Shibari bondage session with thisShibari rope gag and thisShibari rope whip that’ll deliver deliciously stinging pain, putting you and your sub in a heightened state of euphoria. 

• Head harnesses
  Keep your sub’s chin up with thishead harness or restrict their sight for sensory deprivation and muffle their moans with thishead harness mouth gag.

• Enslavement restraints
  Use your sub any way you desire with their arms bound behind their back with ourenslavement restraint andarm binder.

How to use restraints safely

1. Adhere to SSSC (safe, sane, sober, consensual) rules. Discuss boundaries, safe actions and a safe word before play.
2. Allow a space of at least 2 fingers if you’re restraining your sub around the ribcage.
3. Massage pressure points after release for blood circulation.
4. Stop immediately if there are unwanted pain or blood circulation problems.
5. Don’t attempt suspension bondage without adequate training or practice.

Ideas for restraint games

• Turn your sub into your loyal pet dog. Walk your sub around on a leash while he/she wears a bit gag puppy mitts and a dog tail butt plug.
• Put your sub in a head harness mouth gag and tease them with impact tools as they squirm in fear and anticipation.
• Medical fetish roleplay with your sub in a straightjacket and examine their nerve endings with the Wartenburg wheel.