SYmbol of BDSM connection

Amongst Kinksters, a collar symbolizes the BSDM submissiveness. Moreover, there are some other means to demonstrate to whom you belong. We will be revealing some marks of connection we bear and the reason behind them.   Source: Wikipedia

Bruises, welts or hickeys sustained during foreplay must be the top of the list. While hickeys are considered to be for the juveniles, bearing an apparent sign of body power exchange (even though on the short term) is a strong connection mark. 

 “I love looking at the marks because it reminds me of how I had fun with someone”Mistresse Elena

Take note that the mark which makes you feel high and self-confident can be a source of concern among the non-kinksters. It is okay to have Hickeys almost at anywhere but make sure you leave bruises only on hidden spots unless you are already well-known among your kin as a bruise-begging little bottom.

Source: Kinkly 

Collars can range from a lightweight, belt with buckle straps to hardheaded leather designs that has many practical O-rings which can be a cruel pointing posture checker or intricate steel tools which holds tight when locked. Your choice will be based on what you want to use the collar for. However, only the compliant ones can state what really makes them feel like they belong to someone else; which can a tight-fitting or metal that can be customized and exceptional. When collars are applied during physical play, then it becomes a real object, and the wearer must be tugged around with care or chained to a pole – that is when the ring O-ring becomes functional. 

 “I love putting collars to my slaves as the physical limitation offers a good reminder of their submission.”Mistresse Elena 

Most people do use choker on themselves as a reminder of the fun ahead when leaving to the Dom play partners. Endeavor to design your collars into the kind of play you wish to undertake.

Source: Wiki

Cuffs are both practical and symbolic. With the current trend in the world of fashion, you can use some sturdy and functional cuffs publicly. If your choice is ultra-slim bracelet-like cuffs, you can get some at BDSM stores which will match your appearance. However, the O-rings and rivets must be included for practical use. Also, you can try different collections of collars or cuffs; one set for public use, and the other set for “play time.” Note that cuffs and collars can be found alongside other series of jewelry, including a simple bracelet which can bear meaningful symbols.

Chastity Belts can be worn among the non-kink groups, and it doesn’t make it any less practical - either for the wearer or the partner with the key. 

Chastity belts are not something you can forget about while leaving home, according to Alan – a submissive cuckold who wears chastity belts throughout the day. He added that it makes him to always remember her mistress with much devotion, emotional closeness, and consequently enhance his love for her. 

Alan advised that it is better to let the exact form and ritual rise organically and ensure that the two parties involved agree as it is an extension of love. He further added that before committing yourself to it, ensure both of you have a strong bond.