Sexual honesty is very powerful.

It takes strength to face any kind of inadequacy, to accept it, and to embrace the implications.  It’s far better to accept who you are than to live in constant state of denial of your perceived flaws.  The cuck believes he is sexually inferior compared to other men and he has accepted it but is also very turned on by it.  Acknowledge the shortcomings, and finding solutions for it, as Alan and his wife did, becoming a cuckold in his committed relationship.

Forced chastity implies that the sub hands over the control of his sex life totally to his Domme. She decided when and how he is allowed orgasms.

Reminding the chastity slave that his penis is for the Wife's pleasure, as her toy rather than as a male sexual organ, is an important element of cuckold slave training. The cuckold husband has to stop thinking of his penis as a source of pleasure for himself because when he has this idea, his attention will be focused on his penis. His only purpose of living has to be the pleasure of his Wife.

Cock teasing is usually practiced for the express purpose of creating powerful feelings of sexual frustration and pleasure in the person being teased by slowly or repeatedly bringing the subject to the brink of orgasm without actually causing orgasm.  For the cuckold sub like Alan who is married to a strong and dominate woman, great pleasure is derived from her asserting control over him.  Being teased and denied delivers a strong message that she does not need his penis and that his sexual fortunes are squarely in her hands.  An exhilarating dynamic for both in deed.

To conclude, being a cuckold male to a Woman is an act of true love and service.