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03-14-2023 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium
MOST HUMILIATING SEX TOYS FOR SUBMISSIVES MALES
Hello there, Dominatrix! Whether you've just picked up an interest in being the Dom in a BDSM relationship, or you're a professional Dom, this article will do you a lot of good.
Read this article to know how to humiliate your male sub like a pro and the appropriate BDSM humiliating toys to use while at it!
HOW TO BE A DOMINATRIX
1. One way to be a good dominatrix is to make sure to gain consent, and do this in a sexy way.
Consent is critical in a BDSM relationship, even though you are a dom, you shouldn't force your sub into anything. Although, you are the one inflicting the painful pleasure, understanding you have to stay within your sub's boundaries is what makes him completely surrender in the bedroom.
Establish consent and safewords before you begin. Examples of such statements include 'I'm going to take off your clothes now, okay?'
2. Choose the right words.
One important attribute of a dominatrix is confidence and this attribute could reflect in the words you choose.
First consider how you will like him to address you;Madame? Mistress? The options are endless. Choose an honorific that communicates how you want him to see you and suits you perfectly.
You may now begin to issue commands such as; 'lick my toes, slave!'
3. Another vital part is choosing your clothing.
You need to look the part! It all contributes to the fantasy you and your partner create. Leather is always a go-to option. Wearing a corporate business suit that makes you look like a non-nonsense boss also works.
The most important thing is exploring you and your partner's fantasies.
You need to look the part! It all contributes to the fantasy you and your partner create. Leather is always a go-to option. Wearing a corporate business suit that makes you look like a non-nonsense boss also works.
The most important thing is exploring you and your partner's fantasies.
4. Choosing your sex toys also matters.
Sex toys take things to a whole new level in BDSM play. To be the proper Dom, you need to incorporate the best sex toys for humiliation into your play.
Don't know the sex toys to use? That's where we come in!
Take a look at seven of the most humiliating sex toys to make your male sub to your bidding while turning him on;
Anonymous on Quora gives a tip on being a professional dominatrix;
Most importantly, learn how to TOTALLY separate the Domme/sub relationship from the "spouse" or "sig other" relationship. These are best kept orthogonal so they don't interfere with each other.
MOST HUMILIATING SEX TOYS FOR SUBMISSIVES MALES
These sex toys have been carefully selected to take your BDSM play to a whole new level in 2023. Check them out;
This unisex well-made gag can hold a variety of attachments which may be used to serve or please the master or the mistress.
Just picture it: The Sub wearing the gag can be used as a coat hook, catch cigar ashes in an ashtray, hold a tray of refreshments, scrub leather boots, clean the toilet or even used as a urinal!
The set is ideal for a BDSM theme house gathering with serving subs all around, holding still. Use them as human furniture for your own pleasure.
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Excited by smelling the sneakers of your partner after a gym session? Want to inhale the smell of your domme high heels soles? This forced shoe sniffing head harness is a sweet-smelling addition for your inventory of fetish restraints.
As a sneaker bondage lover, imagine strapping this product to your sneaker slave after a long day and getting your hands to work on their bodies while you watch them in their natural humiliated state. Got a sticky feet fetish and need a twist for your solo play? Imagine strapping this on and sniffing hands free while your hands fully do the work they are meant to do (Aka jerking off).
This shoe sniffing head harness is adjustable so that sneakers of all types and sizes can easily be attached to the front part. They feature easily-adjustable straps and buckles to suit head shape and size for comfort and to keep sneakers in place while you get down to action.
Our one size - fits all shoe sniffing head harness is made of high-quality, sturdy, black PU leather.
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Be forced to wear this cage as a submission lifestyle or just as a gag - The best adornment for your pathetic cock.
As a sub, surprise your domme with this pig chastity cage, to show your true nature, a sign of humiliation and true love. Know your place, at your master's feet, in the mud - True to yourself, like a piglet would do.
As a mistress, force your sub to wear this cage on a daily basis. A reminder of who owns the keys.
The paint is a body safe shiny coating, same as in the automotive industry, there is a base coat with the color applied, followed by a clear coat for a glossy coating effect.
It is waterproof, can be used in hot baths, showers and won't chip off like other chastity paint. You want the best, we provide the best.
3D printed in Nylon material, It is sturdy and solid. Ideal for short sessions, and long term chastity goals.
It includes one cage tube, 1 ring + 1 integrated lock ready to use.
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Keep your sub shut with an extra twist: a hose connects to his pee hole - or yours. To choose from either an urethral plug insert at the other end or a funnel and silicone cock ring. Inspired by a bite guard, it is made for rough play.
Simply slip the mouth gag and buckle up the adjustable strap at the back.
It's perfect for those who want to give their submissive a taste of what it's like to be gagged and degraded. It stretches their jaw to the limit with its firm, non-absorbent silicone that won't budge in their mouth. The Chomp Silicone Mouth Gag forces them to swallow any fluid you want, a feature that gives this gag an edge over other funnel gags on the market!
Wash the gag with warm soapy water or soak it in 10% bleach water solution when you're done with your piss-play adventures. After air drying, store the Chomp away from sunlight and extreme heat.
A great addition for the big girls in the dom game. Click here to purchase.
5. PISS FUNNEL
Well honestly, we don't want to know what you use it for. Just have fun!
Features:
- Sexy premium quality Lingerie for chastity cage wearers
- Stretchable material made out of Nylon Knitted Fabric and laces
- Anti Falling straps to secure the cage in place
- A cock cage harness like no other.
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Two beads at the top allow a comfortable penetration.
The toy slides into your fuck tunnel until it reaches your erogenous spots. Meanwhile, the handy neck lets you control the thrust.
The tail allows you to push the beads in and out of the a-hole until you reach the climax.
Material: Body-safe silicone
Dimensions:
- Length of Tail: 5.9 inches/150 mm
- Length of Anal beads: 3.54 inches/90 mm
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FAQS
- SHOULD I BE STRICT WITH MY MALE SUB EVERYTIME?
You can't be strict with your sub all the time. The strict tone can always come in when you need to punish them for being bratty, train them or issue a command. There are other ways to speak to your sub which could be either sensual or degrading. - WHAT SENSUAL WORDS CAN I USE ON MY MALE SUB?
If you want to be sensual, the voice and tone matters. A softer and huskier voice is more appropriate for sensual play. You could say things like; 'stay very still for me', 'I'm going to make you feel really good'
CONCLUSION
There you have it! Seven hot sex toys for humiliation to help you and your BDSM partner ease into your roles effortlessly! Never forget that consent is always key! Goodluck and have fun!
Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com.
Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer.
"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure"
Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices for educational and entertainment purposes.