Bedroom anxiety is not uncommon with sex among plus-size partners. However, the midnight snack position is a sure way of overcoming it – take the whole experience to the kitchen. Apart from the fresh air that comes from the change of scene, the kitchen also offers a good tool to enhance penetration – the step stool. 

Instead of holding your partner’s leg in the air or hold the limb, you can just position it on the step stool. Depending on your preferences, you can penetrate from the front or back.

The first advantage of this position is that it increases the chances of hitting the G-spot of the woman. 

The second is that it is easy to achieve. 

Like the conventional doggy, the woman is on her hands and knees, while the man penetrates from behind. 

Alternatively, the man can stand on the floor while the woman forms the doggy position on the bed. 

 You may introduce a doggy style wrap for more comfort.

The first step here is to raise the bed (if it is not high enough already). This allows the woman to lay on her back while positioning her hips just over the edge of the bed. 

With this, the man can penetrate her directly while standing and holding the legs of the woman. The woman may also rest the legs on the shoulder of the man. 

This removes the hassles of the man’s large belly and ensures that the man does not have to put extra effort into standing.

The normal starfish position is not ideal for plus-size partners. However, when you make some slight modifications, it becomes the best position on the list. Let the female lay out on the bed facing down, with her butt positioned towards the end of the bed. It is even better if she is short because she would not have to stand in some funny way. Instead, she only needs to hang her legs off while the man penetrates her from the standing position. 

The advantage the elevated starfish has over the conventional doggy style is that the man does not have to strain his knees or lean over the woman. Either of this will hinder penetration because the man will be hitting the top of her.

This position involves the use of a sex sling. What a sex sling does is to offer more support to both partners by raising specific body parts. If both partners have large bellies, a sex sling will help the woman keep her legs in the air for long during penetration. 

Likewise, the sling’s straps add more momentum and remove the hassles of the man’s large-sized belly.

Here is one plus size sex positions where the pillow plays a very pivotal role by offering some additional comfort. With a cushion in the picture, it is easier to prop up the hip of the female, thus making it easier to penetrate. Another role of the pillow is to brace and reduce the strain on the female’s body. 

For instance, add several pillows to brace the leg of the female. This leaves them wide open in a V shape – a position that gives you unhindered view and access to their pussy. A pillow under the hips also adds more comfort.

This is one of our best sex positions for plus size women that involves the introduction of a vibrating cock ring and some modifications to the standard pretzel sex position. Ideally, this position requires the female to lie on her right side, with the right leg straddled by the male partner while lifting her left to curl it around his side. 

This adjusted pretzel position is sure to work for cases where the woman is fat and the man below average in length. With the woman on her side close to the edge of the bed, the man will straddle her leg as it hangs partially. This allows maximum penetration while the man is standing.

Some slight modifications to the classic missionary leave you with the modified version, which is great for plus-size partners. It is similar to having a male in a push-up position. Have him bend his knees and rest them on the bed. The knees carry the weight of his lower body, while the elbows (also bent) also help the forearm to carry the weight from the rest of the body. 

The reverse cowgirl position is great for bigger couples, especially when the male partner has a large belly. 

The female will position herself such that she can see her partner’s toes. This ensures that the belly is not causing any obstruction.

 It also enhances the upward and downward movement. You may introduce pillow as leverage if there are apparent height differences.

The bed has always been the ideal love-making venue. However, you and your partner will be moving to the couch for this, because it is much sturdier than the bed. 

All you have to do is bend your partner over the couch and spread their legs. This is only possible if the armrest is present and long. 

The couch will be holding much of the body weight of your partner while giving you unhindered access to her. You will be amazed at how much oral and penetrative sex you can explore in this position. 

Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 

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