We could go about different definitions of chastity belts, but to save our time, let’s stick to the definition of Wikipedia, which says: 

“Chastity belts in BDSM may be used as part of a practice of orgasm control, to prevent the wearer from engaging principally in sexual intercourse without the permission of the dominant, who acts as “keyholder.” A chastity belt will also prevent other sexual activity such as masturbation and oral sex involving the wearer’s genitals. Both men and women may wear chastity belts as part of BDSM play. A chastity belt may be worn for the duration of a sex play, for a limited period or as a long-term arrangement.” 

Cock cages are more prevalent in BDSM femdom and dominatrix plays, and it basically involves locking the penis in a cage. The woman is the dom, and she locks the man’s (sub) penis in the cage, thus ensuring that the latter submits to his woman. By submission, it means that the woman decides how long the cage stays on – a couple of days or even weeks. For the wearer of the cage, getting an erection will become painful, thus making it practically impossible for him to have sex or masturbate. 

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Note that the right cock cage size will not cause any pain to the submissive man when he tries to have an erection. However, the situation will be uncomfortable and obvious.

The issue of the size only concerns the main ring worn around the testicles and the penis. Thus, these cages are usually customized and built according to measurements. The second version is usually better than the first. It is best for newbies to start with bigger cages, so their erections do not come with pains. You may also get chastity cages with main rings of varying sizes, so cages like CB 6000 is great for beginners to start with. This will give you an idea of what your ideal size is, and you can go with spiked or metal cock cages in subsequent purchases while getting the size right. For inspirations, here is a list of the best chastity cage. 

It is highly advisable that you add some silicone lube or baby oil gel to the cage so that it is well lubricated and ultimately more comfortable.

At Oxy, we have the best cock cages and male chastity devices. and the ‘best’ will depend on your preferences. So, endeavor to check the pros and cons of each of these options before settling for one.  

Below are what other people think about these devices. We believe these stories will give you a better understanding of how a penis cage works and how to get the best out of it.  Check them out;

User experience with male chastity belt or cage

Anonymous User 

1. “Were you disappointed?”

“No, the experience was far from disappointing. Although a bit awkward, I enjoyed every bit of the experience. Yes, there may be a couple of frustrations in a non-sexual way, and this is why you must not go too long. It may kill sex drive in women and/or affect the concentration and happiness of the male sub adversely. If you are looking at making it a long-term commitment, be ready to do a lot of practice.”

1. “Was it a one-off situation or you continued for a long time?” 

“It was a day in the belt at a time for me, but the denial was more extended. We opted for a leather belt as a first timer. For me, I don’t think a penis cage should be required to keep a commitment you make to your partner. If you find yourself needing a cage to stay true, then, either the dynamic or rule is flawed. However, with belts/cages, you can spice up the already-existing dynamic or create a new one.”

1. “Any hurt or pains?” 

“There is a bit of discomfort, but no pains whatsoever. The discomfort arises during movements, but with time, it becomes part of you.”

1. “Did you use it with your partner or in a dominatrix?”

“It was with my partner.” 

1. “If it was with your partner, how did it go?”

“Surprisingly, we both enjoyed the experience. For me, the whole experience of chastity is a form of kink, although some men prefer pleasing their partners. You may not understand that it is possible to make your partner happy even if they do not reach orgasm. However, you need a partner that is willing and ready for the experience, and even if they are not turned out that much, they should see it as fun. It can also bring both of you closer.”

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Anonymous user 2: “The world of chastity is indeed wonderful” 

When my wife and I started trying our hands on chastity a few years back, I never knew I would be so engrossed in it like I currently am. We both prefer a 24/7 D/s arrangement, although I am less submissive so far I can orgasm freely. Teasing and denial turn me on the more, and the longer the orgasm is denied, the more submissive I become. She knew this so well and resorted to running all my organs, except in few cases where there are exceptions. The occurrence was a bit frequent at the start, but it is now once in six weeks. We practice pegging too but as a side-attraction. The main attraction is where she brings me close to orgasm, and then she stops and locks me up again. Interestingly, I reached orgasms a few times when she stimulated me anally, while still locking me up. She even tries to stimulate my penis, using a vibrator on the cage. 

One advantage of letting her train you is that you become her bottom all the time – if that is what you want. Some edgy penile stimulation is a good way to start, and the more you practice anal stimulation, it will eventually be enough to get you to cum. 

In any case, be safe and have fun.

Anonymous user 3: “Here is how you can help your man get started with chastity cage” 

Start by discovering the part of the experience he finds the most appealing – the teasing and denial part, submission, or having control over his orgasms or stimulation. Once you have an answer, you are good to go. Be the one to get him his chastity cage – this might turn him or both of you on. After getting your device, the next is to come up with the rules. Keep in mind that the rules are yours to make. You can decide to keep the key while making one available to him in the case of emergencies. You must always know the location of his (spare) key; after all, you are the keyholder. 

How about making her wear the key as a bracelet all the time? It is a subtle reminder every time that she is still in authority. Make him work for his orgasm, i.e. it should be a reward. The task involved may vary, for instance, he gets to orgasm after giving you a certain number of orgasms. Alternatively, you can get him to believe that he is almost out, and then lock in him again at the last minute. More fun, intense pleasure! 

Teasing has great importance too – remind him constantly that he is locked up. Just a text or some sexy photos of you once in a while will do the job. Without this constant reminder, a feeling of neglect may set in, which is in any case bad. 

Know more and master the art of edging and running orgasms. Take him very close to releasing and stop, then put him under lock again. You can tease him by rubbing his cage/balls, giving him a blow job without removing the cage, or grinding on his cock. Locking up the penis of a man makes him more attentive and submissive. The chances are that the woman will find it attractive and sexually appealing when the man becomes attentive. 

Considering that the man cannot reach orgasm, he will be focused on satisfying you to implore you to bring him to orgasm. Finally, being the keyholder, your man will be trusting you a lot. For him to empower you as his keyholder means he values you a lot. 

To get started, read more on the topic and be brave. In the end, you will both enjoy the process and find it really fun.

Final words

That will be all about Cock Cage - the Best Male Chastity Device.  You can check online for more ideas, and experiences of present and past users of these devices – this offers you the best insight into getting the best out of the process. 

Have pleasure, and of course, fun!