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05-25-2023 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium
5 WAYS OF HOW TO TIE TITS AND ADVICE ON GEAR AND SAFETY
If you are a beginner in BDSM, you most likely already know how sensitive the nipples are and how much boobs contribute to the overall pleasure in sex.
However, you might not have come across 'Breast Bondage', also known as 'tit tying'. This article will teach you everything about breast bondage and how to tie up tits for sexual pleasure.
WHAT IS BREAST BONDAGE?
Breast bondage is a BDSM practice that involves the tying of BDSM props such as chest harnesses around the breasts. Alternatively, materials such as rope, ribbon, leather or cloth can be used. It is also known as 'Shinju'
Breast bondage is not done to restrict movement. It makes the breasts look more voluminous and physically appealing.
WHAT TO USE TO TIE TITS?
There are a variety of instruments that can be used for tit tying. Take a look at some of them;
1. HARNESS
Harnesses look sexy as fuck during BDSM play and fit perfectly over a woman’s body. They usually come with leather straps and buckles so you can tighten it up however and wherever you want it.
The metal buckles and O-rings add another layer of sensitivity as the cold metal will contrast with your sensitive, warm skin.
2. NIPPLE CLAMPS
Nipple clamps are always a great starting point to tit tying. Simply attach the clamps to your nipple. To spice things up, you may purchase nipple clamps that are attached to a clit clamp for a full body pleasurable experience.
You can also purchase individual nipple clamps or a pair attached to a chain. This is perfect if you want your partner to be able to pull on them and create tension. Weighted nipple clamps that have a jewel or beads on the end are also a great choice. The weights produce their own tension, plus they look sexy.
3. ROPE
We recommend ropes for only professionals with a nice level of experience. Unlike harnesses that come pre-made, ropes require you to create the apparatus which is okay for only those with experience.
We recommend cotton ropes as they are softer. Also, look out for the perfect width that is small enough to knot and large enough not to pierce your skin. You may as well just purchase special bondage sex ropes as they are specially made to be soft, yet durable.
HOW TO TIE UP TITS
There are different ways to tie tits, depending on the material and the size of the boobs. Take a look at some of them;
Beautiful Chest harness
Pentagram body harness
Start with one large piece of rope and fold it in half. Move the rope around the top of the breasts and come back to your partner’s spine. Pull the ends of the rope through the folded part and create some tension.
Then, move the rope back around the front, this time below the breasts. Move the rope to the back and then place each end of the rope over your partner’s shoulders. Tuck the rope under the bottom band and then move the rope back up. You can twist it between the breasts for a more elegant look.
Detailed instructions here: https://www.theduchy.com/pentagram-harness/
SHINJU
Shinju is a traditional Japanese breast bondage technique. Start with a long rope, at least 20 feet long.
Start by folding the rope in half and then wrap the rope around your partner’s chest, just under the breasts, starting and finishing at the spine.
Take the two ends of the rope and put them over each shoulder. Tuck the rope ends under the front area of the rope and then drape the rope ends back over your partner’s shoulders.
At the end of this process, the tied tits should be rope above, below, as well as between them. There should also be a halter part of the rope that forms over the shoulders and around the neck.
More instructions here: https://www.theduchy.com/shinju/
WITH HARNESS
A harness will have multiple straps that all need to be placed in the right areas. It’s kind of like trying on a bathing suit that is full of holes.
At the bottom, there should be two areas to place your legs in. There should be a strap that runs between your legs and then two over your hips.
Depending on your model there will be a few straps over your chest, usually one under and one over your breasts. There should also be a strap that separates your breasts.
On the harness, there will be a series of O-rings and buckles. Modify the buckles as you wish, making the harness looser or tighter, as you see fit.
CIRCLING
A harness will have multiple straps that all need to be placed in the right areas. It’s kind of like trying on a bathing suit that is full of holes.
At the bottom, there should be two areas to place your legs in. There should be a strap that runs between your legs and then two over your hips.
Depending on your model there will be a few straps over your chest, usually one under and one over your breasts. There should also be a strap that separates your breasts.
On the harness, there will be a series of O-rings and buckles. Modify the buckles as you wish, making the harness looser or tighter, as you see fit.
Nope_farm on Reddit talks about how she felt during breast bondage;
"I'm a sub that's blursed with j cup breasts. I adore impact play, and recently gave breast bondage a try for the first time. (We used bondage tape tightly wrapped around the base of my breast.) It ended up being a bit of a mixed bag- the sensitivity and impact sensation was super fun!.."
SMALL BREASTS
Everyone deserves to experience the wonders of tit tying, no matter what your size is. But just how do you tie small tits? First, start with thinner rope. This will make it easier to tie knots and position your rope around your breasts so it stays in position.
A better option is to use a bondage tape instead of a rope. Take your bondage tape and wrap your breasts. You can wrap both breasts or do so individually. You can also use the tape to maneuver your breasts into different positions.
SAFETY TIPS IN TIT TYING
Take a look at some important safety advice in tying tits;
1. INCORPORATE SAFEWORDS
Have a conversation with your partner and incorporate safe words. There are generally two safe words involved in any bondage scenario. The first is a warning word. It means you still want to continue but you are approaching your limit.
The second means your partner needs to immediately stop what they are doing and offer you help.
2. PRACTICE
We recommend practicing tit tying with yourself first before engaging in it with a partner. Take the time to wrap ropes around your breasts to see how it feels. Experiment with clamps and buckles and determine your pain threshold. You may then practice with a partner too. Ensure you communicate what hurts and how you want it while practicing with your partner.
3. BE PREPARED FOR ACCIDENTS
Keep a pair of safety shears or scissors close by during tit tying. Accidents happen and you need to be able to react quickly and help your partner out of a possibly painful situation.
FAQS
● IS TYING THE TITS PLEASURABLE?
Well, it wouldn't exist if some people didn't enjoy it. However, what one person finds pleasurable, might be too extreme for the other. The best way to know if you'd find it pleasurable is to try it.
● IS TIT TYING DANGEROUS?
This is an extreme BDSM practice and is not for novices. Ensure you get enough training, incorporate safe words and safety measures and you'd do alright.
CONCLUSION
Tit tying is always a great way to create a power dynamic in the bedroom, especially for those who understand the beauty of feeling a sense of pleasure and pain. Just ensure you start with the easiest way and work your way up. Don't forget to incorporate safety measures and safe words. Enjoy!
Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com.
Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer.
"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure"
Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices for educational and entertainment purposes.