How Can a Female Chastity Belt Enhance Your BDSM Experience? - Oxy-shop

What is a female chastity belt?

A female chastity belt was historically used to protect women from sexual assault and prevent infidelity, but the modern version belt is a sex toy widely used in the BDSM community for female chastity bondage. Chastity belts for women are equipped with an adjustable and lockable U-shaped band, which is firmly fastened around the waist, covering the anus and the genitals. 

The purpose of wearing a female chastity device is to restrict the wearer from sexual intercourse or release through masturbation. It can be worn from hours to months to years. However, prolonged wear should come with regular hygiene practices and safe removal.

Why wear a female chastity belt?

Exchange of power – Surrender control of your behaviours and actions to your master. Your sexual release and expression happen on someone else’s terms. On the other hand, the wearer can also deny her partner access to her most desirable parts. 

Teasing and Refusal – Being helplessly teased builds up that amazing sexual tension that leads to some wild sex. 

Torture and Humiliation – This is a huge kink for some people and can be a major turn-on. 

Aesthetic Turn-on – For some people, merely seeing their sub in a female chastity device turns them on.

BDSM Games– Spice up your sex life with female chastity BDSM and female chastity bondage play. 

The stigma of female chastity devices

It’s understandable why women would be opposed to the idea of wearing a female chastity lock, considering the oppression that women have been subjected to throughout history. However, it’s important to know that the wearer has the right to say no at any point. 

Recognize the difference between abuse and BDSM. Nonconsensual forced chastity, sexual restrictions or control defeat the intents and purposes of BDSM.

Complying with the SSSC rule

All BDSM enthusiasts should know the following four cardinal rules: Safe, Sane, Sober, and Consensual. Whether you’re engaged in chastity play or other BDSM games, the SSSC rule should be adhered to. 

When using chastity devices, take extra safety precautions. Both the wearer and partner should have an extra key on hand in case of emergency. Before locking up the device, both parties should know how to remove it if the key is misplaced--keep some tools close. Alternatively, you can use disposable locks which can easily be cut open by a pair of scissors.

Choosing your female chastity belt

Ready to wear one? Start by deciding on the intended use of the device. Casual play, aesthetic purposes or something hardcore? Once you’re clear about that, proceed take measurements so you can purchase a belt that fits you comfortably. From silicone to stainless steel chastity belts, we offer a wide range of design options and accessories, including:

How to measure for your chastity belt?

Ladies will find it easier than men to take measurements for their chastity belts. Use a sewing tape (the kind that tailors use) to take the following measurements:

Waist – The most comfortable place for your belt is on the waistline. It’s either in between the bottom of your hip bone and rib cage or on the same level as your belly button.

Hips – Some chastity belts sit around your hips or include an extra loop for additional security or fashion. For the latter, measure the circumference of your hip bone, the same way you’d measure your waist.

Crotch Length – You should decide on either a hip or waist belt. In either case, first, wear a normal belt at your hip or waist. Now, pick up your measuring tape, and with one hand held up on the frontal-middle part of the belt, run the tape through your crotch, bringing it back to the exact spot behind the belt.

Front Crotch – Hold the tape in the same spot as you did for the crotch length, then run it down to your vagina.

Backside – Start from the place you ended when measuring the crotch length, and run the measuring tape through to your bum hole.

Depending on the design you have in mind, you might need to take more measurements, especially if you want somethingcustom made

Safety first

When buying your chastity belt and accessories, pick one that’s made with the safest and cleanest materials like medical grade titanium or stainless steel. Alternative materials like silicone, polycarbonate, or ABS plastic are also commonly used. Avoid leather or TPE/TPR rubber as they are porous and impossible to sterilize, making them unsuitable for use. 

Cleaning & maintenance

Discuss with your dom and come to an agreement on when the belt should be removed and scheduled for cleaning. Remember the SSSC rule and don’t force the chastity belt girl to do anything against her will. Wearing it for a week without cleaning would break the first rule (safety) and could lead to serious infections.

Daily - Use warm water and soap to clean the device and use water and a soft cloth to clean your vagina. Blow-dry the chastity belt after cleaning to remove moisture and avoid yeast infection or urinary tract infection.

Weekly - Remove your belt once a week for a thorough cleaning by soaking it in disinfectant and then drying it under the sun to kill germs. Check your genitals for irritation or any unusual issues. Put the belt back on only when it’s completely dry.

What is a female chastity belt?

A female chastity belt was historically used to protect women from sexual assault and prevent infidelity, but the modern version belt is a sex toy widely used in the BDSM community for female chastity bondage. Chastity belts for women are equipped with an adjustable and lockable U-shaped band, which is firmly fastened around the waist, covering the anus and the genitals. 

The purpose of wearing a female chastity device is to restrict the wearer from sexual intercourse or release through masturbation. It can be worn from hours to months to years. However, prolonged wear should come with regular hygiene practices and safe removal.

Why wear a female chastity belt?

Exchange of power – Surrender control of your behaviours and actions to your master. Your sexual release and expression happen on someone else’s terms. On the other hand, the wearer can also deny her partner access to her most desirable parts. 

Teasing and Refusal – Being helplessly teased builds up that amazing sexual tension that leads to some wild sex. 

Torture and Humiliation – This is a huge kink for some people and can be a major turn-on. 

Aesthetic Turn-on – For some people, merely seeing their sub in a female chastity device turns them on.

BDSM Games– Spice up your sex life with female chastity BDSM and female chastity bondage play. 

The stigma of female chastity devices

It’s understandable why women would be opposed to the idea of wearing a female chastity lock, considering the oppression that women have been subjected to throughout history. However, it’s important to know that the wearer has the right to say no at any point. 

Recognize the difference between abuse and BDSM. Nonconsensual forced chastity, sexual restrictions or control defeat the intents and purposes of BDSM.

Complying with the SSSC rule

All BDSM enthusiasts should know the following four cardinal rules: Safe, Sane, Sober, and Consensual. Whether you’re engaged in chastity play or other BDSM games, the SSSC rule should be adhered to. 

When using chastity devices, take extra safety precautions. Both the wearer and partner should have an extra key on hand in case of emergency. Before locking up the device, both parties should know how to remove it if the key is misplaced--keep some tools close. Alternatively, you can use disposable locks which can easily be cut open by a pair of scissors.

Choosing your female chastity belt

Ready to wear one? Start by deciding on the intended use of the device. Casual play, aesthetic purposes or something hardcore? Once you’re clear about that, proceed take measurements so you can purchase a belt that fits you comfortably. From silicone to stainless steel chastity belts, we offer a wide range of design options and accessories, including:

How to measure for your chastity belt?

Ladies will find it easier than men to take measurements for their chastity belts. Use a sewing tape (the kind that tailors use) to take the following measurements:

Waist – The most comfortable place for your belt is on the waistline. It’s either in between the bottom of your hip bone and rib cage or on the same level as your belly button.

Hips – Some chastity belts sit around your hips or include an extra loop for additional security or fashion. For the latter, measure the circumference of your hip bone, the same way you’d measure your waist.

Crotch Length – You should decide on either a hip or waist belt. In either case, first, wear a normal belt at your hip or waist. Now, pick up your measuring tape, and with one hand held up on the frontal-middle part of the belt, run the tape through your crotch, bringing it back to the exact spot behind the belt.

Front Crotch – Hold the tape in the same spot as you did for the crotch length, then run it down to your vagina.

Backside – Start from the place you ended when measuring the crotch length, and run the measuring tape through to your bum hole.

Depending on the design you have in mind, you might need to take more measurements, especially if you want somethingcustom made

Safety first

When buying your chastity belt and accessories, pick one that’s made with the safest and cleanest materials like medical grade titanium or stainless steel. Alternative materials like silicone, polycarbonate, or ABS plastic are also commonly used. Avoid leather or TPE/TPR rubber as they are porous and impossible to sterilize, making them unsuitable for use. 

Cleaning & maintenance

Discuss with your dom and come to an agreement on when the belt should be removed and scheduled for cleaning. Remember the SSSC rule and don’t force the chastity belt girl to do anything against her will. Wearing it for a week without cleaning would break the first rule (safety) and could lead to serious infections.

Daily - Use warm water and soap to clean the device and use water and a soft cloth to clean your vagina. Blow-dry the chastity belt after cleaning to remove moisture and avoid yeast infection or urinary tract infection.

Weekly - Remove your belt once a week for a thorough cleaning by soaking it in disinfectant and then drying it under the sun to kill germs. Check your genitals for irritation or any unusual issues. Put the belt back on only when it’s completely dry.