The best dildo for you is one that comes with the features that fulfils its purpose. If you’re a beginner, pick a small dildo and ease into it as you use it more often. Over time, you can move on to a larger dildo if you want.
Realistic flesh-coloured dildos that replicate a penis with veins and textured testicles are great for subverting gender roles and roleplaying. To get creative with roleplaying, go with animal dildos or alien dildos.