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8 Bondage Sex Positions You Should Explore

27-02-2020 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 


Everyone practicing kink knows what bondage is: it is the starting point for most kinky experiences. The “B” in BDSM means “Bondage.” However, despite the familiarity, bondage requires the understanding and prior application of relevant safety measures and negotiations. It is all about playing safe, and talking about safety, we have compiled a list of simple to extreme fun bondage sex positions you should try out.


1. Shrimp or Forced Bow Bondage


There are a couple of similarities between the Hogtie and the Shrimp or ForcedBow positions. The latter is also more complicated than it seems. In fact, it is originally a torture position, after all, bending over hinders breathing. This is why you must check the sub regularly to ensure they are not feeling uneasy or gasping for breath. 


 An upside of this position, however, is that you can secure your partner in the sitting position, and you require a little nudge to tip them over and reach their ass and genitals. The position ensures that the legs do not block access to the genitals. Thus, it is more favorable than the Hogtie position.



2. Hogtie Bondage Position

If you prefer sex with toys or hands, this is your go-to bondage sex position. Although it appears basic, the Hogtie bondage position is known to strain multiple body parts concurrently. If you want to feel powerless as a sub truly, this position is the best. 



You should get a bondage rope or a set of armbinders combined with ankle restraints. You could also get a beginner hogtie system.



3. Leapfrog Bondage Position

This position is great if your partner is a highly flexible type. Getting into position requires little effort, but the best part is the several options it provides for the introduction of the genitals. With the wrists and ankles bound together, there is literally no limit to what you can try. 


You even get more options when you switch the position of the wrists from outside or inside of the ankles. Depending on the sub, the ease that comes with each position varies. Consider using an adjustable spreader bar to get the most convenient binding option in this position.



4. Armbinder Gag Bondage Position

The armbinder position is a friendlier alternative to tying your hands at the lower back while retaining the common instant vulnerability. 


Only basic flexibility is required, since the arms are tied behind the neck, but the control still is still withdrawn. Another perk of this position comes with the introduction of the gag. You can add a gag separately or incorporate it separately using a rope, depending on the setup in use. 


Filling your partner’s mouth with a gag means more intimacy as well as a bit of drooling. However, it is vital to have a clear non-verbal safe word to indicate distress and the need to stop play.



5. Mummification Bondage Position

This extreme bondage sex position is not for sexual access. Instead, it is a full-bodied bondage position where the restraint is the point of the play. 

Hence, you must understand your partner entirely before initiating this type of bondage sex position. Restraining every body part will send even the strongest sub into a panic.


Some kinksters find the extremism in mummification pleasurable. So, if you are the type that likes going the extra mile, get some ropes, vet wrap, bondage tape, plastic wrap, or even full-body leather casings. Your choices will depend on your preferences. 


Despite being an advanced bondage sex position, you may not incorporate sex into the arrangement. If you choose this, you may cut openings or leave holes leading to the genitals or breasts. You can choose this bondage sex position if you love forced orgasms or tease and denial kinks.



6.  Chair Bondage Position

Here is another simple bondage sex position for newbies. This position requires little effort, considering that the bound person is sitting. However, partners must use a piece of bondage furniture to allow maximum sexual access. The bondage furniture is a unique chair with a hole in the seat, thus facilitating the introduction of genitals. It is an excellent position for oral sex enthusiasts, alongside some types of kinky sex. 


You may introduce a mild sensation play, too, especially if you crave a complete kink experience despite being beginners. In a chair bondage position, the wrists are tied to the arms while ankles are tied to the legs of the bondage chair. But you can do much more, depending on your sense of creativity.


To tie your partner, use wrist and ankle cuffs or a simple bondage rope.



7.  Bent Over Bondage Position

This is a bondage sex position that helps you to explore your flexibility and balance. 


It comes in three forms – a narrow stance, a wide stance, or a downward-facing dog style. 


Whichever option you have chosen, your partner will need to assist you in some way to maintain the position. 


Once you get it right, it is highly pleasurable. 


A spreader bar comes handy in preparing your partner for the bent over bondage position.



8. Spread Eagle Bondage Position

Combining bondage with the spread-eagle position means heightened excitement. Tie your partner’s wrist and ankles to the four corners of the bed, creating an unrestricted vulnerability, as well as access to both the front and back of their body. This also leaves room for unlimited experimentation. 


However, always pay attention to your partner while at it because the position of the arms (above the art) tends to hinder effective circulation.

   Keep the restraints at minimum tightness or use an under-the-bed restraint system where available. 


   Finally, irrespective of the bondage sex position you have chosen, you must ensure that you and your partner hold     prior discussions about your kinky needs and expectations and how to meet them. Effective communication is key       at every stage of the process, and you must keep the logistics at bay so that you do not miss out on the intimacy. 


   Go have some pure pleasure!


Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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