12-21-2022 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium
Kink games come almost on a platter when you’re in a relationship. But if you’re not, that doesn’t mean you should leave your desires unattended. Today, there are numerous ways to get sexual pleasure - or frustrations, even if it’s a lone act. And chastity solo games are one way to do this.
Denying yourself orgasm is surprisingly fun and bring a lot of advantages by controlling your sexual urges. Lot of people do it to the point that it is almost becoming mainstream.
From self-imposed chastity belts to online games, there are many routes to go by without the second person. Further in this article, we’ll explore chastity games for solo players. So whether you’re single or looking to try something new, read on for some solo chastity fun.
People play different games to enjoy a good time or achieve some desired goals. For some couples, it’s about spicing things up by engaging in bondage or role-playing games. Others might enjoy trying out new positions or getting locked up in a chastity contract.. But what if you do not have a partner, nor a keyholder? Not to worry, it is still possible to keep your chastity fun and engaging with this list of games we have come up with!
Those chastity solo games are about delaying gratification and heightening sexual tension to a certain extend. Or just for keeping your chastity goals until your decided release.
The downside of solo chastity is that it can be very dependent on the honor system. You can always cheat and give yourself more opportunities, but at the cost of your moral integrity. Ultimately, male chastity lifestyles are all about self-control, so you'll learn to follow the rules as you continue on.
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The first thing that you need to be cautious of is if your current cage is appropriate. Lots of issues can arise when you have a brand new one, so plan to spend 1-2 weeks (or more) with your keys and testing it out for any problems that may arise. For example, base-ring too small or too big? Not getting enough sleep because of night erections? Make sure it's all good before you start challenging yourself with games.
We recommend purchasing a chastity cage from a reputable brand, such as oxy-shop.com
Many cages available on mass market platforms such as amazon are made of porous metal or low grade steel, metal or alloy. This is not appropriate for a device worn for long term plays and even for short ones. If it is not a body safe material, it can rust and create irritations to your groin area.
A back-up key is important for any emergency purposes. If you want to keep yourself from temptation and cheat in the game, a good trick is to put your key into a bottle of water and freeze it into ice. Once it's frozen, if you have an emergency, go get the key and then return it to the freezer when you're done.
Alternatively, you could use an oxy-shop key container, which are closed with a zip-tie like numbered padlock. The only way to open the plastic lock is to destroy it - to make sure that you retrieve the key only when it is an emergency case.
Keeping your chastity games lively sums up the purpose of embarking on the fun in the first place. But how can you do this, most especially by keeping off your chastity device keyholder? Stick around in this section to find popular ways to live up to your sexual fantasy in your alone time.
LOST IN THE BACKYARD
If you have a compound with a sizable backyard, it’s an interesting choice for you.
What happens here is that you’ll go outside your yard with your key. Having a blindfold on, take a spin about ten times. As you approach the last count, toss your key over your shoulder. Although, be sure not to throw it outside your compound.
Per search trial, you can cast a die. Whatever figure you get determines how much time you have to look for the key. To do once per day or once per week, depending of your chastity goals.
THE WHEEL OF FORTUNE - OR MISFORTUNE
Some online websites or forums have come up with some ingenious wheel to spin. Your spin will decide your fate and how many days you should be locked up. Here is an example.
Here is a chastity wheel of denial made by our friends at malechastitylife
BOWL OF KEYS
If you’ve shopped for a few chastity cages online beforehand, you should now have many keys. However, if you haven’t, there’s no problem with that. You can buy a bunch of padlocks with similar keys to have enough supply for this game.
Place all these keys in a container, a bowl or a jar, and give it a good shuffle. Now, you have no idea where your key is. Every period of time decided (For example every week) - Roll a dice to decide how many keys you should try to unlock yourself. After every turn, you must return the key to the bowl. This game is best when there are at least 10 keys to choose from, but the more you have available the more fun and challenging it will be.
Alternatively to the dice roll, you could decide when to pick one key after successfully doing something you are trying to discipline yourself to do. As a sort of reward to yourself with a lucky twist involved.
INVOLVE THE COMMUNITY
Announce on your favourite chastity forum that you'll be adding a day of chastity for every comment on your post. People on the internet are wonderfully generous!
THE COST OF A STAMP
Slide your key in a letter and mail it to yourself. It does take a few days to reach, the expectation of the time of release can be thrilling. Imagine your postman knew he is part of your games and he would be literally holding the keys to your manhood. Cheeky.
Chastity games can be a perfect way to incorporate that longing excitement into your solo sex life. If you're thinking about trying out a chastity game, here are some potential upsides.
Medium article about the benefits of chastity.
Have fun being chaste, and remember, you are not alone out there.
Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com.
Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer.
"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure"
Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices for educational and entertainment purposes.