12-21-2022 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 


Chastity Games for Solo Players


Kink games come almost on a platter when you’re in a relationship. But if you’re not, that doesn’t mean you should leave your desires unattended. Today, there are numerous ways to get sexual pleasure - or frustrations, even if it’s a lone act. And chastity solo games are one way to do this.

Denying yourself orgasm is surprisingly fun and bring a lot of advantages by controlling your sexual urges. Lot of people do it to the point that  it is almost becoming mainstream. 

From self-imposed chastity belts to online games, there are many routes to go by without the second person. Further in this article, we’ll explore chastity games for solo players. So whether you’re single or looking to try something new, read on for some solo chastity fun.


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WHAT ARE CHASTITY GAMES?


People play different games to enjoy a good time or achieve some desired goals. For some couples, it’s about spicing things up by engaging in bondage or role-playing games. Others might enjoy trying out new positions or getting locked up in a chastity contract.. But what if you do not have a partner, nor a keyholder? Not to worry, it is still possible to keep your chastity fun and engaging with this list of games we have come up with! 


Those chastity solo games are about delaying gratification and heightening sexual tension to a certain extend. Or just for keeping your chastity goals until your decided release. 

The downside of solo chastity is that it can be very dependent on the honor system. You can always cheat and give yourself more opportunities, but at the cost of your moral integrity. Ultimately, male chastity lifestyles are all about self-control, so you'll learn to follow the rules as you continue on.

Deviancedesires chastity game ideas. 


WHAT TO DO BEFORE STARTING A CHASTITY SOLO GAME? 


  • Make yourself comfortable with the device 

  • The first thing that you need to be cautious of is if your current cage is appropriate. Lots of issues can arise when you have a brand new one, so plan to spend 1-2 weeks (or more) with your keys and testing it out for any problems that may arise. For example, base-ring too small or too big? Not getting enough sleep because of night erections? Make sure it's all good before you start challenging yourself with games.


    We recommend purchasing a chastity cage from a reputable brand, such as oxy-shop.com


    Many cages available on mass market platforms such as amazon are made of porous metal or low grade steel, metal or alloy. This is not appropriate for a device worn for long term plays and even for short ones. If it is not a body safe material, it can rust and create irritations to your groin area.


  • Have an emergency back up key 

  •  A back-up key is important for any emergency purposes. If you want to keep yourself from temptation and cheat in the game, a good trick is to put your key into a bottle of water and freeze it into ice. Once it's frozen, if you have an emergency, go get the key and then return it to the freezer when you're done.


    Alternatively, you could use an oxy-shop key container, which are closed with a zip-tie like numbered padlock. The only way to open the plastic lock is to destroy it - to make sure that you retrieve the key only when it is an emergency case.

    THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF CHASTITY SOLO GAMES


    Keeping your chastity games lively sums up the purpose of embarking on the fun in the first place. But how can you do this, most especially by keeping off your chastity device keyholder? Stick around in this section to find popular ways to live up to your sexual fantasy in your alone time.


    LOST IN THE BACKYARD


    If you have a compound with a sizable backyard, it’s an interesting choice for you.


    What happens here is that you’ll go outside your yard with your key. Having a blindfold on, take a spin about ten times. As you approach the last count, toss your key over your shoulder. Although, be sure not to throw it outside  your compound.


    Per search trial, you can cast a die. Whatever figure you get determines how much time you have to look for the key. To do once per day or once per week, depending of your chastity goals. 


    THE WHEEL OF FORTUNE - OR MISFORTUNE


    Some online websites or forums have come up with some ingenious wheel to spin. Your spin will decide your fate and how many days you should be locked up. Here is an example.


    Here is a chastity wheel of denial made by our friends at malechastitylife 


    BOWL OF KEYS


    If you’ve shopped for a few chastity cages online beforehand, you should now have many keys. However, if you haven’t, there’s no problem with that. You can buy a bunch of padlocks with similar keys to have enough supply for this game.


    Place all these keys in a container, a bowl or a jar, and give it a  good shuffle. Now, you have no idea where your key is. Every period of time decided (For example every week) - Roll a dice to decide how many keys you should try to unlock yourself. After every turn, you must return the key to the bowl. This game is best when there are at least 10 keys to choose from, but the more you have available the more fun and challenging it will be.


    Alternatively to the dice roll, you could decide when to pick one key after successfully doing something you are trying to discipline yourself to do. As a sort of reward to yourself with a lucky twist involved. 


    INVOLVE THE COMMUNITY 


    Announce on your favourite chastity forum that you'll be adding a day of chastity for every comment on your post. People on the internet are wonderfully generous!


    THE COST OF A STAMP  


    Slide your key in a letter and mail it to yourself. It does take a few days to reach, the expectation of the time of release can be thrilling. Imagine your postman knew he is part of your games and he would be literally holding the keys to your manhood. Cheeky. 

    ON ICE 

    Another of the chastity solo games is this, and it’s great for single players. It entails putting your key in a container filled up to the brim with water. Then place it in the refrigerator to freeze up. You can bring your rock-solid ice around and let it melt until the key is retrievable.

    You’d be surprised how desperate you might get as you watch the ice melt. At first, it could be frustrating, especially when you see no visible changes in the shape of the ice.

    Bedbible example

    Male Chastity games
    A TIMELY RELEASE

    Some accessories would be necessary, such as a box with a timer or oxy’s chastity safe with timer lock. Put the key in and set up a time, up to 99 hours. Be careful what you wish for!

    There’s no way to stop the time lock, so it will force discipline, but it would be safe to have a spare key somewhere as mentioned before.
    MYSTERY COMBINATION

    Are you looking for the real deal? This might be the best one yet. Of course, it’s also about keeping away the key here. But the catch is that you’ll need one with a combination lock to carry on. On the lock, blindly set a passcode.

    Every day or every week,Roll a dice to help decide your attempts at guessing the combination. Mind you; this could be a long one depending on the pin since there are 256 possibilities on a 4 digits padlock. Write down the ones you have tried to save yourself an eternal chastity experience.

    KEEP AWAY CHASTITY SOLO GAMES

    If you don't have much self-control, these are the games for you- even though not real games, they help in your chastity management. They're nice because they require less self control and can limit how often someone cheats.

    1) Leave it over the weekend at the office

    Do you work in an office? Leave your key at your desk on Friday, and you'll be without one until Monday morning. Looking forward to summer break?

    2) Leave it at someone’s place

    Put your key in a small bag or your wallet, something you can easily go without for a short period of time. When at a friend or family member's house, put it somewhere that they would find it but wouldn't necessarily pay attention to it. You can try going as long as you can before giving in and telling the homeowner that you think you left something at their house so you can go pick it up.

    For an added challenge, hide the key in a book on their bookshelf or somewhere else that they wouldn't expect it to be, and leave it there until the next time you visit them.


    Benefits of Playing Chastity Games


    Chastity games can be a perfect way to incorporate that longing excitement into your solo sex life. If you're thinking about trying out a chastity game, here are some potential upsides.

    1. More Intense Orgasm & new type of orgasms: After you finally allow yourself to orgasm after days or weeks of deprivation, the release is often more intense. The extended build-up can lead to more powerful muscle contractions and longer-lasting orgasmic sensations.
      Moreover, you can learn to orgasm differently.

      You would be surprised how wonderful orgasming with a cage while flaccid can be. You can learn to orgasm anally via the prostate, or by using a vibrator on the cage or mentally. Yes, the last one is possible with a bit of imagination and for chastity veterans out there!
    2. Control your porn & masturbation addiction: Porn is a major issue for many men. Wearing a chastity cage is a great deterrent from watching porn, as you're unable to masturbate. Teasing yourself by watching porn can make chastity cages very uncomfortable, so learn to curb your addiction and regain some free time!
    3. Greater Sexual Awareness: Diverting your sexual pleasure away from mainly intercourse allows you to become more attuned to your body's wants. This can be beneficial during solo play and exploring sexual activities with a partner. 
    4. Improved Stamina: If lasting long during sex is a struggle, playing chastity solo games can help increase your endurance. The more you deny yourself an orgasm, the greater control you'll have over ejaculation when you finally attain climax. This can lead to increased satisfaction for you and your partner(s).
    5. Explore your feminine side: Chastity is common and popular for men who prefer to live more femininely. From trans to simple crossdressing, wearing a tiny mini cage on your shock it, can help you tuck away your manhood into a little clit and feel more like a woman.

    Medium article about the benefits of chastity. 


    Have fun being chaste, and remember, you are not alone out there. 


    Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

    Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

    "I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

    Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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