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07-08-2022 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 

Small Penis? Cuckolding and Chastity Can Improve Your Sex Life


If you’re feeling down about having a small penis, you’re not alone. Many men with a small penis worry about not being able to fulfil their partner’s sexual desires and have sexual frustrations due to being ashamed of their shortcomings. 


With unrealistic body standards and cock size expectations thanks to porn, it’s easy to beat yourself up for not living up to those standards. Believe it or not, there are also men with small dicks who have a fulfilling sex life and have no problems with having a loving partner! However, if you and your partner are not having sexual satisfaction due to your penis size, or erectile dysfunction, it’s time to change things up in the bedroom.


Besides your penis, there are several ways you can satisfy your partner — it’s not about the size of the tool, it’s about making the best of what you have. Here’s how you can have a great sex life even with a small penis.

Be honest with yourself and your partner

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If your current methods are no longer giving your partner sexual satisfaction, acknowledge it and find solutions. There is power in sexual honesty, and you’ll feel more liberated in your relationship once you accept yourself rather than live in denial of your perceived flaws. If you believe you’re inferior to other men, you might as well accept it and find ways to see it as a turn-on not just for your partner, but also for yourself. From there, you and your partner can move forward to improve the bedroom situation.

Balance and configure your sexual dynamic

If there’s love between both parties, you will both find solutions to help each other achieve sexual satisfaction. Have a pillow talk and ask them questions about their kinks, desires and what turns them on. Have an open mind for whatever they tell you and take time to process your feelings about it. You don’t have to jump right into every suggestion.


Rather than focusing on male pleasure, adopt a purpose-driven dynamic in your relationship, focus on serving your partner and pleasuring her with oral sex or even a strap-on dildo. Men can find sexual gratification not just through penetration with their own penis, but also through their partner’s pleasure. You can also switch up the sexual dynamic with cuckolding (just like one of our clients, Alan), group sex, threesomes, chastity play and more.

Cuckolding and chastity

It’s time to put your ego and penis fixation aside and learn to be vulnerable. Think about what would make your partner happy while you get sexual satisfaction too—a win-win situation. For a start, you can try the chastity lifestyle by locking up your penis in a chastity cage and hand over control of your orgasms to your partner as you serve and pleasure her. Your penis is now a toy for your partner to play with, instead of a sexual male organ that exists solely for your pleasure. With complete dominance over her cuckold husband, she gets to tease you to the brink of orgasm and decide when to unlock it and when you get to cum.


When you feel ready to take your subservience to the next level, you can graduate to cuckolding. Being cucked comes with many benefits: You’ll be happy seeing your partner happy or the jealousy would make you want to prioritise your partner’s pleasures and love her even more as you feel the urge to compete with the third party. Watching your partner with another man could even be a turn on. 


To find a bull of choice, either one or both of you can choose him using dating apps like Tinder, FetLife or Local Cuckold. Meet your bull in a public place and make sure he’s comfortable with the arrangement and knows what he’s getting into. With someone else fucking your partner, you can now focus on other aspects of the relationship in and out of the bedroom. 

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Conclusion

Instead of beating yourself up for your shortcomings, start with embracing yourself. Be transparent with your partner about your thoughts and feelings. With that, you will both find solutions to improve your relationship and intimacy rather than continue sabotaging it. 


It’s the 21st century and experimenting with bringing a third party into the bedroom is no longer as much of a taboo. Furthermore, sex is only one of many aspects of a loving relationship and should not be the main focus. And remember, wearing a chastity cage and handing your partner the keys to your arousal is an act of service and true love.


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Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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