If you’re feeling down about having a small penis, you’re not alone. Many men with a small penis worry about not being able to fulfil their partner’s sexual desires and have sexual frustrations due to being ashamed of their shortcomings. 

With unrealistic body standards and cock size expectations thanks to porn, it’s easy to beat yourself up for not living up to those standards. Believe it or not, there are also men with small dicks who have a fulfilling sex life and have no problems with having a loving partner! However, if you and your partner are not having sexual satisfaction due to your penis size, or erectile dysfunction, it’s time to change things up in the bedroom.

Besides your penis, there are several ways you can satisfy your partner — it’s not about the size of the tool, it’s about making the best of what you have. Here’s how you can have a great sex life even with a small penis.

It’s time to put your ego and penis fixation aside and learn to be vulnerable. Think about what would make your partner happy while you get sexual satisfaction too—a win-win situation. For a start, you can try the chastity lifestyle by locking up your penis in a chastity cage and hand over control of your orgasms to your partner as you serve and pleasure her. Your penis is now a toy for your partner to play with, instead of a sexual male organ that exists solely for your pleasure. With complete dominance over her cuckold husband, she gets to tease you to the brink of orgasm and decide when to unlock it and when you get to cum.

When you feel ready to take your subservience to the next level, you can graduate to cuckolding. Being cucked comes with many benefits: You’ll be happy seeing your partner happy or the jealousy would make you want to prioritise your partner’s pleasures and love her even more as you feel the urge to compete with the third party. Watching your partner with another man could even be a turn on. 

To find a bull of choice, either one or both of you can choose him using dating apps like Tinder, FetLife or Local Cuckold. Meet your bull in a public place and make sure he’s comfortable with the arrangement and knows what he’s getting into. With someone else fucking your partner, you can now focus on other aspects of the relationship in and out of the bedroom. 

Instead of beating yourself up for your shortcomings, start with embracing yourself. Be transparent with your partner about your thoughts and feelings. With that, you will both find solutions to improve your relationship and intimacy rather than continue sabotaging it. 

It’s the 21st century and experimenting with bringing a third party into the bedroom is no longer as much of a taboo. Furthermore, sex is only one of many aspects of a loving relationship and should not be the main focus. And remember, wearing a chastity cage and handing your partner the keys to your arousal is an act of service and true love.