01-11-2023 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 


HOW TO GAPE YOUR ASS AND TRAIN YOUR ASSHOLE

Anal gaping falls into the category of the most extreme kink practices. For people who would like to engage in advanced anal play, there is a need to train your butthole before attempting to gape your asshole. Considering that anal gaping is an extreme kink play, it requires a lot of practice and preparation to stretch the asshole enough to get a gape.


If you have been looking to learn how to anal gape or you are just curious about what anal gaping is, you are at the right place. Read this article to learn everything about how to gape your ass and train your asshole for extreme anal actions.


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WHAT IS ANAL GAPING? 


Anal gaping is the act of creating a 'gape' in the anal opening. During anal gaping, hands or special butthole-stretching toys are used to penetrate the asshole for a prolonged period of time to stretch the two anal sphincters and create an opening.  Although temporary, this gape could last for hours before the anal opening returns back to normal.


Why Do People Do Anal Gaping?


Most people engage in sex to get pleasure. Anal gaping is a sure way to increase their sexual endurance, sensitivity and satisfaction. Inserting toys in the asshole for a long period of time stimulates the many nerve-endings around the butthole and creates an intense feeling of fullness which provides ultra pleasure. This aside, anal gaping, when done safely and properly can be a pleasurable experience because it enhances a deeper form of intimacy between partners as it takes a while before the gape can be created. 


Also, people in a dom/sub relationship consider it a form of power play. The dom gets satisfaction from seeing how much their penis can fill their partner’s butthole. Anal gaping also reminds the sub of their devotion, humility and surrender to their dom. 

Also, check out some anal gaping experiences of other people on Reddit.com:


MyVoreThrowaway:


"I had an extremely large boyfriend, and we both got off on the intensity and brutality of it on an occasional basis, because it does require preparation and, uh, endurance — physically and mentally.


I considered it part of the more hardcore BDSM sessions we engaged in, not the stuff of spontaneity."


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ANAL GAPING ESSENTIALS


Take a look at some essentials you would need in order to have a smooth anal gaping session;


  • High-quality lube to ensure smooth thrusting. We recommend water-based lubes if you are using gaping toys.
  • A water solution for the enema.
  • Towels to reduce potential mess
  • An anal douche nozzle, hand—held pump or an enema bag.
  • A collection of different sizes of gaping toys. Examples below:

Hollow Tunnel Trainers for Anal Gaping 


The design allows it to sit super comfortable between your asscheeks for long BDSM play sessions. Stimulating yourself with a butt plug combined with a tunnel hollow plug is the feel of a stuffed spread ass.


Hollow Tunnel Butt Plug

Hollow extreme anal spreader


Looking for a new way to test your or someone's else anus' abilities? 


By inserting the device petals and spreading them, the Ass-blossoming can begin! Get access to a widely spread hole - for your own pleasure. 


Dare to peer through the Anal Hollow Spreader. 


Hollow extreme anal spreader

Spiral anal plug - Keep it inserted at the widest


This unique plug is spiral-shaped for easy insertion, and made out of steel for a smooth, slick feeling. Plus, the gold coating adds a touch of luxury. Whether you're new to anal play or an experienced user, this plug is sure to give you a unique and exciting experience!


Spiral Anal Plug


RISKS OF ANAL GAPING AND THEIR SAFETY PRECAUTIONS


  1. Tears and tissue damage as a result of prolonged or rough thrusting, thrusting with large sex toys or insufficient lube. To be safe from this, go slowly and gently, use enough lube and start with smaller sex toys.
  2. STIs and STDs. Please practice responsible, protected and safe sex to escape this.
  3. Prolapsed anus. Again, thrust slowly and carefully to prevent this.


HOW TO ANAL GAPE


Anal gaping requires some level of skill and experience. Here is a step-by-step guide on how you can successfully anal gape; 


  • Empty your bowels: Do not begin an anal gaping session without emptying your bowels. You may take a gentle laxative to speed up the process.
  • Get an anal douche or enema:  Sometimes, just a douche might be sufficient. However, considering that anal gaping is extreme and you might be thrusting deeper, you might want to be safe from messy surprises, so give yourself an enema to ensure your anus and rectum is clean. Here is a portable anal douche 
  • Relax and Warm up: The more at ease you are, the quicker your anal muscles relax so ensure you are as relaxed and aroused as possible to make it easier for your sphincters to loosen up. Music, a glass of wine, a nice conversation, foreplay are all great ways to help you relax.
  • Use Lubes: Be generous with the amount of lube you apply to your anus and whatever you would be using to penetrate your butt-hole; penis, fingers, dildos, gaping toys. Ensure you keep the lube within a close reach. You would be needing it often, especially for your first gaping session. 
  • Insertion: You may want to get into the doggy-style position at the beginning of the session. Go slowly and gently, with circular and back-and-forth motions to stimulate all the nerve endings in your butthole. The movement should cause your sphincters to loosen up and create a gape. However, if you are a beginner, this might take a while, just keep practicing. Also, if you are using gaping toys, ensure you start with the smallest ones and work your way up as you advance. 
  • Remove whatever you used to gape and enjoy the view: After a long and pleasurable gaping session, slowly take out whatever you used. A nice and wide gape should be in the picture.

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FAQS


IS ANAL GAPING SAFE?

Just like every other kinky activity, anal gaping is safe when done patiently and slowly. Goldstein says, “If it is not strategically done – meaning via slow and steady incremental dilation, people can get anal tears, called fissures, and/or dilated veins, and hemorrhoids”.

HOW DO I PERMANENTLY GAPE MY ASS?

The gape created through anal gaping usually lasts for a maximum of three to four hours, depending on how long you gaped for. The anal muscles are elastic and can not be opened permanently. They eventually go back to their normal size after a while.


CONCLUSION


If you are a fan of advanced anal play, then you should absolutely give anal gaping a go. You might not be able to get a full-on gape at your first few attempts, just keep practicing. Also, do not forget that the longer you thrust for, the larger and more long-lasting your gape would be. Good luck, stay safe and tell us about your experience when you give it a try. 


Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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