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05-16-2023 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium
HOW TO PUT ON CHASTITY
Finally decided to go full-blown kinky? Chastity devices are just the perfect addition to your collection of sex toys and devices.
This article will teach you how to put on a chastity device. In addition, you will also learn how it feels to wear a chastity cage and how to measure for one. Generally, you will learn everything you need to know about chastity devices. If you ask me, you're in for a good time. Let's begin.
WHAT IS A CHASTITY CAGE?
A male chastity cage, also known as a cock cage, is a device worn over the penis and locked in place with a code or key. The goal is to prevent masturbation, oral or penetrative sex and hinder the ability of the wearer to reach a full-blown erection.
WHY DO PEOPLE WEAR A CHASTITY CAGE?
Anybody who decides to wear a chastity cage has reasons that boil down to the fact that it is something they want to do and will derive sexual pleasure from.
Chastity cages are usually used in BDSM as a form of submission to the dom. The dom partner in the relationship uses them to control the ability of the sub partner to achieve an erection, masturbate or have sex.
Some couples may try using a cock cage to fulfill a sexual fantasy.
Cock cages may be used to check a cheating partner. They may also be used to curb the masturbation addiction of a partner.
A lot others willingly use male chastity devices in order to control all sexual urges, thoughts and acts, rendering their penises shrunken and useless.
Some people just lock up their penises for the satisfaction of seeing what it looks like.
Deleted on Reddit gives a reason;
“Psychologically it can be a lot of different things depending on the situation. It shifts the focus and attention away from your dick to the rest of you and that can be a powerful thing for a lot of people.”
HOW DOES IT FEEL TO WEAR A CHASTITY CAGE?
Submissive partners in a BDSM relationship enjoy the thrills from their partner having controlling their sexual activities and a chastity cage offers just that.
Also, some people just enjoy the feel of steel against their skin as well as the uncomfortable feeling of the cage restricting their erection.
Lucas Fielding on Quora says how wearing a chastity cage feels;
“Wearing a chastity cage feels amazing, arousing, frustrating, intimate, and a whole bunch of other things.”
HOW TO MEASURE FOR CHASTITY CAGE
It is important to wear only the right size of a chastity cage to prevent chafing, pinching and losing blood flow. Here are a few tips to help you get the right measurement and fit of your chastity cage:
- Only purchase male chastity cages that display the measurements and sizes of their devices on the packaging.
- First, take a measurement of your testicles and penis base together, with a soft measuring tape to get the accurate size of ring that will fit in perfectly without sliding off or restricting your circulation.
- Then measure the length of your flaccid penis from the base to the glans.
- Finally, choose the accurate size of ring and matching cage size.
HOW TO put on a chastity Device
Here are some tips to guide you on how to put on a chastity device:
- Safety Precautions: The first thing to do is to choose your keyholder wisely especially if engaging in chastity for the first time. Also, it is important to always have an emergency key but that won't particularly be easily accessible to ensure control.
- Preparation and Personal Grooming: While many people prefer to shave their genitals completely before using a device, we do not recommend this as this may cause itching, ingrown hairs and bumps which may be further irritated by a chastity cage. However, we recommend trimming pubic hair such that hair won’t get caught up in the device and still low enough to ensure visual access to keep a track of any pinching and chafing.
3. Lube up:Make lube your best friend when you want to wear a chastity device. We recommend water-based lube. Apply a generous amount of lube to your penis and the inside of the device before wearing.
4. The base ring:Slide the base ring over your shaft and balls slowly so that it sits firm against your body. The lube will help for a smooth slide. Gently pull each testicle through one at a time. Pulling the skin of your scrotum through the ring slowly first to help guide your balls into place. Then bend your flaccid penis downwards to help it get through the ring.
5. Attach the cage:Slide your flaccid penis inside the cage carefully to avoid pinching. Some devices come with spacers to provide a more customisable fit. These are to be placed over the locking pins to keep the cage at a set distance. To know the size spacer to use, start with the largest and work down through the smaller sizes until you find a comfortable distance. Other devices come with locking pins fixed on the back ring instead of spacers. These locking pins help to guide the cage into the right position. Line up the guide pins with the holes on the back ring, then slide the cage towards your body. Adjust until the position of the cage is comfortable.
6. Lock the Device in Place and Keep the Keys: You need to be more careful in this part. We recommend practicing with locking and unlocking the device before putting it on. This will help you get used to it and loosen the lock if it is stiff. Then give the keys to your keyholder or store them safely.
N.B Everyone's body is different so only using a method that suits you is as important as finding the right cage. The above method is most appropriate for people who want to learn how to put on a chastity belt but if you are having issues getting your shaft into a chastity cage, then you should consider the Stocking Method.
The Stocking Method:Here are the steps to follow if you'd be using the stocking method to put on your chastity cage.
- Fold the stocking top down over itself so the toe end is open. We recommend using a stocking with a silky texture. Avoid the ones with a lace finishing or silicone band.
- Between the fourth and fifth stage listed above, place the stocking over your penis shaft and pull both the toe and stocking top through the end of the cage as you pull the cage towards your body.
4. The base ring:Slide the base ring over your shaft and balls slowly so that it sits firm against your body. The lube will help for a smooth slide. Gently pull each testicle through one at a time. Pulling the skin of your scrotum through the ring slowly first to help guide your balls into place. Then bend your flaccid penis downwards to help it get through the ring.
5. Attach the cage:Slide your flaccid penis inside the cage carefully to avoid pinching. Some devices come with spacers to provide a more customisable fit. These are to be placed over the locking pins to keep the cage at a set distance. To know the size spacer to use, start with the largest and work down through the smaller sizes until you find a comfortable distance. Other devices come with locking pins fixed on the back ring instead of spacers. These locking pins help to guide the cage into the right position. Line up the guide pins with the holes on the back ring, then slide the cage towards your body. Adjust until the position of the cage is comfortable.
6. Lock the Device in Place and Keep the Keys: You need to be more careful in this part. We recommend practicing with locking and unlocking the device before putting it on. This will help you get used to it and loosen the lock if it is stiff. Then give the keys to your keyholder or store them safely.
N.B Everyone's body is different so only using a method that suits you is as important as finding the right cage. The above method is most appropriate for people who want to learn how to put on a chastity belt but if you are having issues getting your shaft into a chastity cage, then you should consider the Stocking Method.
The Stocking Method:Here are the steps to follow if you'd be using the stocking method to put on your chastity cage.
- Fold the stocking top down over itself so the toe end is open. We recommend using a stocking with a silky texture. Avoid the ones with a lace finishing or silicone band.
- Between the fourth and fifth stage listed above, place the stocking over your penis shaft and pull both the toe and stocking top through the end of the cage as you pull the cage towards your body.
- Lock the cage in place then fully remove the stocking by pulling mainly on the toe section. This will guide the head of your penis to sit snugly inside the end of the cage. Once in place, pull both ends of the stocking to remove it completely from the cage.
N.B. If a stocking doesn’t work for you, try a small plastic film such as a small food bag. Ensure you do not use any material with sharp edges. Follow the same steps above and adjust to suit.
FAQS
● DOES WEARING A CHASTITY CAGE HURT?
Wearing a chastity cage shouldn’t hurt. This is why you need to get the right ring and cage size to prevent pinching and pain.
● WILL THE SIZE OF MY PENIS REDUCE FROM WEARING A CHASTITY CAGE?
A long-term chastity cage wearer may lose some length and girth as a result of the penis not being used because muscles lose tone when not exercised regularly. However, freeing your penis to be erect regularly eradicates this concern.
CONCLUSION
Whether you are testing the waters of BDSM you are just considering trying male chastity devices for other reasons, proper knowledge on how to wear a chastity device ensures you get all the satisfaction you need from this decision. Good luck.
Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com.
Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer.
"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure"
Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices for educational and entertainment purposes.