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Tips to pick a submissive name for your pet slave

16-05-2020 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 


WHAT TO CALL A SUBMISSIVE MALE?


A submissive is a person in BDSM who submits to a Dominant person (Urban dictionary)


A nickname and a pet name are two different things. A nickname is usually given by family or friends, or is a short version of the formal name. While a pet name is used in a D/s relationship as a sign of affection for each other's roles. 

Submissive pet names fall into different categories - some are used only during a scene or on everyday life, some are humiliating, some are rewarding. Whatever your fancy or motive, oxy has gathered a list of creative submissive names ideas for you to pick!


1. SUBTLE BDSM SUB NAMES


For new characters of the BDSM world, it is quite hard to transition from being vanilla one moment and switch to being D/s the next. 

Everyone has his own techniques- and one way is to use a subtle signal by calling the sub with his attributed pet name. Using male submissive names is a signal to communicate to your partner that you are ready to fulfil your D/s role. This mechanism will be a psychological stimulus to prepare your mind for the transition and make your knee weak! 


Male sub names used in a particular context will allow the sub to know what the expectations are of him at any given moment. Once addressed by his real name, the husband will know it is in a partner/husband context, once addressed by his pet name, he knows it is his Goddess talking to him. 


Tips: In the list of submissive names for males, pick a soft one for this purpose - Thus, you will be able to alternate back and forth in front of anyone without anyone being the wiser. 

Example: 

“Patrick, pass me the salt” - Wife talking 

“Prince, pass me the salt” - Dom talking 


Finding names to call a sub is a distinctive way for you to define when you are in a role. 


Example:

  •  Sweetheart  

  • Treasure

  • Honey

  • My Pearl

  • Prince

2. A FOREIGN SUB NAMES

Translate a name with a meaning into another language. For example “slave” is “Servus” in latin and “puella” is girl - combine it together like “serella”. Only you both will know the meaning of it - thus you can use it as a sexy nickname in everyday life.


Another popular way is to translate a typical pet name into Spanish or French - For example “Mon amour is my love in French. Use Google translate to try it on https://translate.google.com


3. A FEMININE VERSION OF HIS NAME OR SOMETHING OVERLY FEMINE


Often in a BDSM scene, a male sub embraces a sissy role and a femine, weak persona. Call it this way to assert the dominance. 

Feminize him, or come up with a cute ‘girly’ name to call him, and use it regularly: 


Example: 

  • Princess 

  • Kitty Slave Boy

  • Lady

  • Madam

  •  Mademoiselle   

Or find a feminie version of a male name: 

Example:

  •  Steven > Stephanie 

  • John > Johanna

  • Philippe > Pippa

4. A FLOWER SUB NAME


Why not combining the feminie aspect of a name with the power of a majestic plant? Flowers all have a meaning and history attached to them. 


For example, a “Rose” is a special gift you give someone you love. It is also something you cultivate, prune, fertilize, water - Exactly the same a sub should be treated in a D/s relationship.


5. SOMETHING DEGRADING


If it is his likes, some subs will be turned on being called a degrading and humiliating pet name. 


Some words have a great deal of power behind them. It is often spoken with aggression and implied dominance of one using it over the one on the receiving end of it. In short, it is a total turn on for people within this kink. Some words can have the power to put subs in the headspace of extreme submission. 


A male sub kink is to reduce himself in the eyes of the dominant partner, so a pet name for the occasion seems like a great way to achieve it. 


For some people it might seem extreme, byt never yuck other’s people’s yum 


Examples:

  • Slut

  • Worthless piece of shit

  • Faggot

  • Bitch

  • Maggot

  •  Cumlover / Cum bucket / Cum slut  

  • Gump

  • Baby penis


6. MAKE HUMILIATING PET NAMES CUTE


By the magic of a sentence, transform an aggressive name into something cute and more appropriated. 


Eamples: 

  •  Mummy’s favorite slut  

  • Her little pain slut

  • Bitch Boy

  • Bitch

  • Sissy Bitch

  • Little slut

  • Her fuck toy


7. ASSERT OWNERSHIP


A male sub is owned by a master, thus guys like to be called as properties: At dom’s pleasure. 


Example of bdsm pet names:

  • My bitch

  • Mine

  • My toy

  •  My possession  

  • My property


8. A SUB IS NURTURED AND PROTECTED BY THE DOM, SO BE HIS NAME


A submissive and a dom both learn from each other in the course of a D/s relationship. Yet, the dom is the master leading the way and taking decisions, while the submissive is the one obeying and learning: as a father leading the way to a child. 


A good idea of sub names can follow those respective roles. 


Examples:

  •  Good boy or Good girl (Feminize the male sub)  

  • Boy toy

  • Little fellow

  • Little one

  • Blushing boy ( a favorite)

  • Little slut

  • Her fuck toy

  • Baby bo


9. A PET NAME FOR A MALE PET


Stick to what a submissive is, a master’s pet.


Examples: 

  •  Puppy  

  • Pet

  • Pawn


10. TRADITIONAL SUB NAME FOR MALE SUBMISSIVE


Stick to what works! 

Sub or Subby will do just fine.


Please write a comment of what pet names you currently use in your relationship. Do you use a sub name in play or out of play or do you have a word that holds power enough to set the libido on fire? 


We would love to read your experiences and the why’s


Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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May 16, 2020

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