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26-08-2018 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium
Are you new to bondage or a rope master, it’s always good to review some BDSM Basics. At Oxy, we want you to get restrained nicely – So here comes the top 5 bondage ties every fetter must know.
When you need to teach a lesson to your sub and you don’t want him to struggle too much, bondage restraints are essential. You can tie someone up to a stable object like a table, or tether their limbs together, so they stay put.People in the BDSM community especially beginners, will favor silk or soft rope as the hard metal can bruise naked skin and quickly become unbearable. Source: autostraddle
1. Wrists and upper arms tied behind the back
Starting just under the shoulder, bind the arms together using a spiral wrap that extends down to the wrists. This position thrusts their chest forward and puts them into a naturally submissive position. Plus, they can still look cute wriggling around. It’s incredibly erotic to watch. If you have a real mean streak, you could always get your sexy partner to perform some humiliating tasks - like licking your boots or lapping up a saucer of milk to heighten the erotic charge for you both. Source: Wikipedia
Tips:If you do not have rope or restraint at your disposal, you can always get Oxy’s Seal the deal restraint set.
2. Ankle to tigh
This bondage tie is pretty simple to achieve and massively increases sensitivity in the lower body It’s sometimes known as the frog-tie or fat-leg tie because of the crouching look it creates. To secure the ankle to the thigh, bend the leg back on itself and wrap the binding around from top to bottom. It can be secured along the outer edge with a few extra knots. The aim is to keep the heel pressed against the bum.
Tips: Use this tie in combination with a device like a spreader bar to force open the legs.
3. Wrists to upper arms
Securing a sub's wrist to their upper arm is an excellent first-timer way of exploring your BDSM fantasies. It’s simple to tie someone up like this. Bend the elbow and then secure the wrist to the upper arm. Once this bondage tie is done, you can play out some teasing fetish scenes on the bed. Ask your slave to carry out a near-impossible task like fetching you a glass of water. Or anything else that strikes your fancy. Source: theduchy
Tips: A secure restraint device if the fiddle or also called cangue. A medieval restraint device.
4. THE hogtie
The hogtie is one of the most popular bondage positions forepeople with a rope fetish. It severely limits movement and makes it impossible for someone to fight back. Place the sub on their stomach, side or back with their ankles tied to their wrists behind them. To separate the legs, tie each ankle and wrist separately, or extend the distance between them to allow more movement. This position is perfect for having some BDSM fun with the exposed areas of their body. Use feathers to tickle or a paddle to spank depending on your preference.
Tips: IF you want to make simple, just get a hogtie restraint set. No need to be an expert at ropes to have fun.
5. The basic chest harness
The basic chest harness is the last one of our top five bondage ties. A rope harness can be as elaborate or as simple as you want. It can also be combined with breast or crotch bondage as you get more confident in your rope techniques.Using both ends, thread your rope around the chest twice, over and under the nipples, then loop it together behind the back. Next go over both shoulders, under the lower chest bind and finally secure both ends together at the back. A harness lets a sub move their body. You can add another rope to use as a rein, so it’s easy to pin them down. Being allowed to move but not very far can be a huge adrenaline rush, especially if your slave loves to struggle or attempt escape. Source: ropeconnections
Tips: Suspend your sub in air! Oxy Shibari suspension gives a perfect visual experience as well as a secure hang.
SAFETY TIPS
Make sure your bondage sessions follow a plan. Always discuss each move with your partner beforehand. Be respectful of their boundaries and use a safe word during play. When you tie someone up the ropes can be relatively tight. It's important to leave enough room to put two fingers underneath, so their circulation isn't cut off. Finally, once you've trussed up your sexy play partner, never leave them alone, they've submitted to you, and it’s your job to keep them safe.
Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com.
Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer.
"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure"
Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices for educational and entertainment purposes.