Alan, Oxy-shop regular customer & friend, is sharing his experience as a caged cuckold:
“My wife tells her friend that I am hung like a 7th grader.She has found a very good solution which is anice young boyfriend, a great guy, that provides for herwith what I lack. It works well and everyone is very happy, especially her which is the main thing.It took many years of encouragement to get her totry it with another guy. We found a very nice man, well equipped and it went very well, better than I could have hoped for. I am happily now her cuckold husband for about 3yrs. She has hada few lovers but one that has been steady and has become a good friend. She is naturally dominating and I am submissive. We both really enjoy the lifestyle and she is very happy and much more satisfied and so am I. She found that she enjoys it much more than she ever thought she would, andI geta lot of pleasure from her dominance and control over me, teasing, denying me orgasms, having her lover over to our house whenever she wants.Being caged while serving and pleasuring my wife is unexpectedly more exciting and fulfilling for me than I ever expected and she is finding that my attention to her and her pleasures has been taken to a new level as well. A true win-win. The way things are going I am not sure she will ever unlock me, and at this point I am totally ok with it. :)”
Sexual honesty is very powerful.
It takes strength to face any kind of inadequacy, to accept it, and to embrace the implications. It’s far better to accept who you are than to live in constant state of denial of your perceived flaws. The cuck believes he is sexually inferior compared to other men and he has accepted it but is also very turned on by it. Acknowledge the shortcomings, and finding solutions for it, as Alan and his wife did, becoming a cuckold in his committed relationship.
Forced chastity implies that the sub hands over the control of his sex life totally to his Domme. She decided when and how he is allowed orgasms.
Reminding the chastity slave that his penis is for the Wife's pleasure, as her toy rather than as a male sexual organ, is an important element of cuckold slave training. The cuckold husband has to stop thinking of his penis as a source of pleasure for himself because when he has this idea, his attention will be focused on his penis. His only purpose of living has to be the pleasure of his Wife.
Cock teasing is usually practiced for the express purpose of creating powerful feelings of sexual frustration and pleasure in the person being teased by slowly or repeatedly bringing the subject to the brink of orgasm without actually causing orgasm. For the cuckold sub like Alan who is married to a strong and dominate woman, great pleasure is derived from her asserting control over him. Being teased and denied delivers a strong message that she does not need his penis and that his sexual fortunes are squarely in her hands. An exhilarating dynamic for both in deed.
To conclude, being a cuckold male to a Woman is an act of true love and service.
A big thank you to Alan on sharing his experience with all of us.