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101 Kinky Things - Ultimate list of Fetishes and Kinks

02-03-2020 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium 

Let's look at some of kinks and fetishes out there. We have listed quite few of them but there are way more out there.


Before starting reading this list, you have to understand that this is a mixture of Kinks AND Fetishes (fetishes being something that isn’t necessarily sexual, but people get a degree of sexual arousal from it).


Ready? Let's get KINKY!


NOTE: (E) = Edge play, kink with an increased risk/danger factor

  • Blood Choking – restrict blood flow to the brain and make them pass out(E)

  • 1950’s Fetish – roleplay of the traditional family in the 1950's

  • Abduction Seduction– act of kidnapping your partner but in a caring manner

  • Adult Baby –  one partner is being taking care of wearing diaoers and acting like an child

  • Aliens–  who never imagined how alien sex looks and feels like. May the Force be with you!

  • Amazonian– commanding and a strong women is your thing 

  • Amputees– people with amputations get you turned on 

  • Anal Sex– some people just like it in the back entrance 

  • Armpits – excitement  from kissing, licking, or smelling armpits

  • Autofellatio– flexible guy who can give a blowjob to himself

  • Bare-backing–  raw sex without a condom (E)

  • Bathroom Control – using the restroom is becoming a luxury, decide when partner can use it

  • Biting – not a lot of explanation needed

Can you guess what fetish "Dacryphilia " is?

  • Blood Choking– restrict blood flow to the brain and make them pass out (E)

  • Blood Play – being aroused from playing, letting and seeing blood. Closest you can get to vampirisim (E)  

  • Body Painting– name says it all 

  • Bondage – restrict movement of your partner

  • Branding– close to animal play. Use a warm object to leave a mark on the skin (E)

  • Breast or Nipple Torture– cause sensations and pain to nipples and breast (E)

  • Breath Play – pretty much choking (E)

  • Caning– stroking someone with a cane

  • CBT – cock and ball torture –sexual practice of inflicting pain or discomfort on a man's penis and testicles. (E)

Learn more about Cock & Ball Torture here


  • Chastity lock the cock

  • Clothed Sex – sex while still having clothes on, fabric shoulg go inside you

  • Collaring – subissive fans love to wear it in order to show who they really are 

  • Consensual Non-consent – some might consider it as rape play. We would like toemphasize consensual

  • Corseting/Tight-lacing – use the corset in order to change the shape of your body 

  • Cross Dressing– wearing clothes from another gender

  • Cuckold – woman finding her bull (BBC) and a male partner enjoys watching this form of humiliation 

  • Cupping – some find it super relaxing and a way of a therapy

  • Dacryphilia– getting turned on by crying or seeing tears.

  • Double Penetration– one penis in the ass and another one in the vagina

  • Electric Play – the “safest” way is by using a TENS unit (E) Have you seen Electric Chastity devices?

  • Enema– process of cleaning the anal cavity or rectum

  • Exhibitionism– if you ever enjoyed being watched, then this is a kink for you 

  • Face Fucking – a rough blowjob where the man fucks partner's mouth

  • Facial Hair – you like seeing beards and mustaches etc.

  • Figging– peeled piece of  a ginger and insert it into the anus

  • Fire Play– just be careful while playing with fire (E)

  • Fisting – fuck vagina or anus by using a fist using a fist

  • Flogging– using whip to stroke someone

  • Food Play – sex + food = food play

  • Fisting – fuck vagina or anus by using a fist using a fist

  • Forced Feeding – giving food to someone in order for them to gain weight

  • Furry Yiff– having sex while wearing a furry costume

  • Garters and Stocking – get horny by seeing a woman in this underwear

  • Gerontophilia– being attracted by older people

  • Golden Showers – peeing one someone (E)

  • Graphoerotica – using someone's body to write on it

  • Gun Play– using or threating to use guns and being aroused by it (E)

  • Hand Fetish – same as feet fetish but just for hands 

  • Hermaphrodites– liking shemale/transgender people

  • Human Furniture– acting like a piece of furniture

  • Impact Play – striking someone with various objects to create a “sting” or “thud” sensation

  • Impregnation – getting someone pregnant (E)

  • Intelligence Fetish– getting horny by someone being intelligent or just talking to them

  • Knife Play– could be considered "threat" play while using kitchen or army knives (E)

  • Knismolagnia – tickling can be sexy 

  • Lactation– when you get off on women with milk-producing breasts (usually drinking)

  • Long Hair– long hair gets you going

  • Loud Sex – make sure everyone can hear you

  • Medical Play– using medical equipment. Variety here can be quite exciting (E)

  • Mummification – name says it all, don't allow someone to move

  • Needle Play – use the needles in order to have fun  (E)

  • Nyotaimori – eating little bit of sushi and soya sauce from someone's body

  • Orgasm Control – control orgasms of another person with using signals 

  • Orgasm Denial– denial of orgasm for a certain period of time

  • Orgies – a lot of sex with a lot of people

  • Pecattiphilia – breaking religious rules

  • Play Piercing– piercing the skin for the looks or sensitive reactions (E)

  • Pony Play – all of us wanted to ride a pony when we were younger 

  • Pregnancy Fetish – usually from males, thought to be from hormonal reactions

  • Puppy Play – acting like a dog or being an owner of a dog

  • PVC – can't stop wearing PVC clothes

  • Queening– worldwide known as face-sitting. Woman is on top

  • Rough Sex– all you can imaging that includes pain

  • Rubber– wearing rubber clothes

  • Scat Play– play with fecal matter (E)

  • Sensation Play– using all sorts of materials to create different sensations. Check what do we have in store for sensation play

  • Sensory Deprivation - take away different senses by using variety of toys

  • Sex Toys–  you just love using sex toys

  • Sleepsack Fetish – some people just like to be in closed spaces

  • Spanking – spank that ass

  • Swinging – closest you will get to orgies

  • Tattoos– give or get, choice is yours (E)

  • Texting and Audio – text messages or sexy audiobooks 

  • Trampling– "live" under someone’s foot. Some connect it with a foot fetish

  • Transformation– process of transforming people into someone or something else 

  • Vacuum Bed – a device that is two sheets of latex with the air sucked out and the person inside breathing through a tube. A form of sensory deprivation (E)

  • Vampire – name says it all, it can include blood play

  • Voyeurism – you are more of an observer

  • Watersports– urine play (E)

  • Wax Play– hot wax gets you going

  • Werewolf Play – similar to vampire play but just includes  werewolves

  • Wrestling– we all know what wrestling is

  • Yaoi – a fetish for male-on-male sexuality in anime, manga, or fan fiction

  • Zentai– wearing a full lycra bodysuits

So, how many of these kinks made it on your "been-there-done-that" list? Share in the comments your favorite.

Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com. 

Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer. 

"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure" 

Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices  for educational and entertainment purposes. 


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3 Responses

Demetri Vrachopoulos
Demetri Vrachopoulos

May 04, 2020

I don’t know what it would be whether it would fall in the category of bondage or CBT. I call it constriction. The use of smaller and smaller rings on the penis and testicles to feel the swelling and then trying to cum thru them. Sometimes a catheter is used to so the person can still cum while the penis is swollen to twice it’s size and red as a beet. Home Depot has become a sex shop for me.

Lisa Myers
Lisa Myers

April 11, 2020

You left out a popular one scissoring fetish..many guys do not want to wrestle but just want Leg scissoring..with varying degrees of intensity. Word of warning..need a safe word and if you don’t know the scissoree don’t do what I did on e scissor facing away ..had to give the guy CPR

Jdawg
Jdawg

April 05, 2020

Very nice list tried most of it love most of it

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