05-18-2023 - Written by Jett Oxy - Follow on medium
If you were speaking to a vanilla person, 'ownership' in a relationship might sound wild. But that's what makes the dynamics of a BDSM relationship different!
Sub partners love to feel owned. Wondering how to make them feel that way? Then read this article to the end. It will give you 101 Dom/sub ideas to help you make your slave feel owned.
There's one thing to note. All the ideas listed must only be carried out after proper discussion and consent by both partners.
Take a look at 101 Dom/sub ideas to make your slave feel owned in your D/s relationship;
Anonymous on Quora says what she does to her male bondage slave;
"Well first I would strip him , and make him wear Chastity , then I will tie him up like a dog and I will make him my waiter to bring the food like drinks for me . I will keep him naked with only Chastity on and make him do laundry like making him to wash my dirty panties , after then I would smoke a cigarette on his face and tease him with my body try to make him on and I would love to see him struggle to get his penis off from the Chastity and his pain and beg me up to unlock it…"
101. If you are willing to correct them each time they forget until it is a habit, have them refer to themselves as “this slave” or “this boy/girl/pet” etc.
Sarapeno on Reddit gives Dom/sub ideas on how your dom can make you feel owned.
"...In crowds, rather than him grabbing your hand, have him grasp your wrist firmly and lead you through by that."
"Wear something like nipple clamps or ankle cuffs under your clothing where no one can see…"
● WHY DO SLAVES WANT TO FEEL OWNED?
The main reason a sub/slave would want to feel owned is to be constantly reminded throughout the day, whether in subtle or strong ways, that they are under the Dom’s/Master’s control. When a slave is reminded of their submission and feels owned, the relationship becomes fulfilling for them.
● HOW CAN I MAKE MY DOM PARTNER FEEL LIKE THEY OWN ME?
The trick to this is to think of yourself as your Dom's 'property' and offer yourself to them. You should only do this to someone you trust, of course.
Making your slave feel owned is never a miss when it comes to Dom/sub ideas. However, the place of sanity, safety and consent can never be over-emphasized. Incorporate safe words and don't abuse your slave. Enjoy and stay safe!
Article Written by Jett Oxy for oxy-shop.com.
Jett is the owner of Oxy-shop.com, a BDSM insider, a sex educator and writer.
"I always try to explore the confines of the BDSM world and bring valuable insights for new comers joining our adventure"
Phd in related field, father and business owner, Jett Oxy brings you stories and advices for educational and entertainment purposes.