Symbols of BDSM Connection: Cuffs, Collars, Marks, and Others

SYmbol of BDSM connection

Amongst Kinksters, a collar symbolizes the BSDM submissiveness. Moreover, there are some other means to demonstrate to whom you belong. We will be revealing some marks of connection we bear and the reason behind them.

Love Marks

Bruises, welts or hickeys sustained during foreplay must be the top of the list. While hickeys are considered to be for the juveniles, bearing an apparent sign of body power exchange (even though on the short term) is a strong connection mark. 


 “I love looking at the marks because it reminds me of how I had fun with someone”Mister ElenaHowever


Take note that the mark which makes you feel high and self-confident can be a source of concern among the non-kinksters. It is okay to have Hickeys almost at anywhere but make sure you leave bruises only on hidden spots unless you are already well-known among your kin as a bruise-begging little bottom.

Collars

Collars can range from a lightweight, belt with buckle straps to hardheaded leather designs that has many practical O-rings which can be a cruel pointing posture checker or intricate steel tools which holds tight when locked. Your choice will be based on what you want to use the collar for. However, only the compliant ones can state what really makes them feel like they belong to someone else; which can a tight-fitting or metal that can be customized and exceptional. When collars are applied during physical play, then it becomes a real object, and the wearer must be tugged around with care or chained to a pole – that is when the ring O-ring becomes functional. 


 “I love putting collars to my slaves as the physical limitation offers a good reminder of their submission.”Mistresse Elena 


Most people do use choker on themselves as a reminder of the fun ahead when leaving to the Dom play partners. Endeavor to design your collars into the kind of play you wish to undertake.

Steel Collar

Stainless Steel Neck Collar - Integrated Padlock
$69.90

Renaissance Collar

Collar with Leash -
$21.90

O Ring Collar

Collar with leash & O-ring Open Mouth
$19.90

CUFFS

Cuffs are both practical and symbolic. With the current trend in the world of fashion, you can use some sturdy and functional cuffs publicly. If your choice is ultra-slim bracelet-like cuffs, you can get some at BDSM stores which will match your appearance. However, the O-rings and rivets must be included for practical use. Also, you can try different collections of collars or cuffs; one set for public use, and the other set for “play time.” Note that cuffs and collars can be found alongside other series of jewelry, including a simple bracelet which can bear meaningful symbols.

Alloy cuffs

Zinc Handcuffs - 4 Sizes
$24.90

Steel CUffs

Stainless Steel cuffs - Integrated locks
$119.70$64.90

Chastity Belts

Chastity Belts can be worn among the non-kink groups, and it doesn’t make it any less practical - either for the wearer or the partner with the key. 


Chastity belts are not something you can forget about while leaving home, according to Alan – a submissive cuckold who wears chastity belts throughout the day. He added that it makes him to always remember her mistress with much devotion, emotional closeness, and consequently enhance his love for her. 


Alan advised that it is better to let the exact form and ritual rise organically and ensure that the two parties involved agree as it is an extension of love. He further added that before committing yourself to it, ensure both of you have a strong bond.

TATTOOS

Tattoos are the most verbatim link of mark one can share with his or her partner. To alter one’s body is a massive step, but make sure that both you and your partner share a strong feeling and have thoroughly thought about it before you proceed. Afterward, get a good artist, preferably someone who is kind to kinksters.

 

If possible, check out the designs first to see if you love it. And you should know that a tattoo is not a show of submission but an indication of a strong relationship between partners, according to Greta– a German bondage and latex fetish. She further revealed that her tattoo and her partners’ have significant relevance to them, and serves as a signature of connection in their mind. While this act may look dramatic, it has stayed as a part of their relationship for a long time.

 

In reality, a simple plastic ring made out of a gum-ball machine can stand as a meaningful mark for two people, but if you want to use something more concrete to make your connection more apparent to your partner or both of you, endeavor to discuss it with your partner and find out what is best for you.


2 Responses

Jim Throneberry
Jim Throneberry

January 08, 2019

I had a partner for 10 years. It was my first partner to introduce me to bdsm. Not that we did it all the time. It was a something we would introduce from time to time.

While with him I knew he had a high school friend that lived in another state now. I knew they had gotten tattoos together and would spend much time together on member porn sites to exchange pictures and videos, not know what was exchanged or discussed, just knowing they shared some type of bond.

My partner would always tell me his friend was straight they never did anything sexual together.

Ten years in our relationship he invited him to live with us. At this point I learned that they had a very special bond. Greater bond than what I could ever dream of having with someone.

It has been four years we all live in the same city. He is now my friend ex, but I do see my ex and he tells me of the activities his friend and he share, it is activities that I had no idea he even enjoyed or did while we where together for 10 years.
Thanks for the info on the tattoo’s. I can honestly say, it took me 14 years to figure out what was under my nose, but you brought it completely home to me. Thanks.

Rooney
Rooney

January 05, 2019

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